If you’re in the market for a cockring, you’ll find dozens to choose from made from jelly.  Keep in mind though that a jelly ring will not last very long.  Additionally, jelly is so very stretchy that it probably won’t be able to give the same pleasurable squeeze as a product made of a higher quality material.

Instead of jelly, consider a cockring made from silicone, like those created by Luze from  JolliesPleasureToys.com.  All her products are made from high-quality medical grade silicone, which will last for years with proper care.

Luze sent me two types of rings to try out:  the delightful Vibrating Ring and a set of Ergorings.  The Vibrating RIng and the Ergorings have the same base, a thick but stretchy ring that features an extra ridge of silicone running across the center.

The Vibrating Ring will work best for most men if worn around the shaft and testicles.  The Ring is topped with a mini-vibe controlled by a single on/off button.  This is held in place by a sheath of silicone.  The bullet can be removed from its sheath for cleaning; a little lube rubbed inside the sheath will make it even easier to slide out.

Two Ergorings are included per package.  Both are large enough to fit over the shaft and testicles of most men; however, the smaller ring would probably be more comfortable if worn only over the shaft.  These rings can be worn with the smooth or the ridged side toward the body.  Experiment to see which feels best.

There’s little hotter to me than watching a man coerce his package into a cockring.  I’m fond of giving things a head start with a little oral before the cockring is donned, then I like to sit back and observe closely as he slides his cock, then one ball at a time through the tight ring.  Occasionally I am called upon to assist in this venture.  Rrowr.  I love that.

Thick cockrings such as these will hold the testicles up and away from the body.  This achieves two pleasantly unexpected goals.  First, the entire package looks larger and more commanding.  Some men like to wear a firm yet stretchy cockring like the Ergoring in public to create more of a bulge under clothing. Dressed or naked, a man proudly sporting a cockring is a sight not to be missed.

Next, a quality cockring allows a partner easier access to that lovely area behind the balls.  You do go there, don’t you?  The perineum responds wonderfully to kisses, licks and caresses.  Since it can be trickier to get to when the balls are falling down over your nose (yeah, I’ve been there), try stimulating it when everything is caught up in a cockring.

Other than appearance and ease of access, men tend to find that a cockring both keeps them harder longer and helps them to delay orgasm.  Stretchy cockrings such as these will allow blood to be held in the penis, and will provide easy removal when the time is right.

I found the Vibrating Cockring to be espeicially stimulating.  The vibe can be positioned on top of the cock during missionary-style sex or turned 180º for doggie-style.  When it’s not being worn, the ring also makes a convenient hand hold for pressing the vibe directly to the clit.  Its snug stretchiness means that it can even be placed around a toy for extra stimulation during hand-driven or strap-on dildo play.

To clean, wash with soap and water, boil briefly or run through the dishwasher.  Remove the tiny vibe from its sheath first, of course.  Most silicone products should be used only with water-based lubes, but Jollies toys are made of such high-quality silicone that a good silicone lube will also work just fine.  Test on an inconspicuous area first just to make certain.

These premium cockrings would make a welcome addition to any well-stocked toy box.

On a hot summer night with the a/c on the blink, I could think of no better way of cooling off than with a bowl of sherbet and a chilly glass sex toy in my cunt.

While I scooped the frozen treat into a bowl, I soaked the Squeeze Plug from GlassFantasy.com in some icy water.  Dessert prepared, I trotted off to the bathroom to snuggle the toy into place.  Oooooo have you ever put a chilly toy into your body?  If not, I cannot recommend it to you highly enough.  You’ll thank me.

If your adventurers with the Squeeze Plug take place in the depths of icy winter, swap the sherbet for hot chocolate and prepare the toy under a stream of warm water.  See the versatility?

The versatility extends to where one can put the Squeeze Plug.  While it’s designed primarily for vaginal stimulation and Kegeling, it can also be used in the behind (please note that the product I tried featured a t-shaped handle, not the ball-shaped version pictured at this writing on GlassFantasy.com).

The bell-like swell at the bottom of the toy should press nicely against a man’s prostate or a woman’s g-spot, and the thin neck will ensure that it stays in place as long as you want it to.  In either case, the handle will both keep the toy from slipping all the way inside and will make the toy easy to remove.

Because glass is non-porous, only a little silicone or water based lube is required for smooth entrance.  The toy won’t absorb lube, nor will it harbor stains, odors or bacteria.  That means that one can safely share the Squeeze Plug or any other glass toy.  Just make sure to clean it thoroughly first.

Sitting in my extra-warm house became bearable with the chilly toy inserted.  Squeezing it gave me both clear feedback on my Kegeling and a lot of pleasure.  This toy would be an excellent choice for folks looking for versatility, beauty and an innovative way to save on air conditioning bills.

I’ve been dying to own the Njoy Eleven since I first caught a glimpse of it in a photograph some eighteen months ago.  Dying.  Literally.  Just a tiny fraction of my soul slipped away each and every day that the Eleven was not in my home.

I’ve adored all the other Njoy toys I’ve had the opportunity to try.  The Pure Wand is priceless.  The Fun Wand is fabulous.  The Pure Plugs are perfection.  I keep all my cherished Njoys in a special box where no possible harm can come to them.

Now that box has gotten 2.75# heavier due to the addition of the Eleven.  And after using the Eleven (many, many times) my soul gradually is coming back to life.

While all the other Njoys come packaged in sumptuous pink lined boxes, the Eleven arrives in something even more gorgeous.  It’s a leather clutch-like bag with hidden magnetic closures.  See?

It’s really classy, and if I were a braver woman, I might be tempted to carry the clutch (sans toy) out for a nice dinner.  Except that the leather is emblazoned with a tiny imprint of the manufacturer’s name.   Maybe some day I’ll screw up my courage and try.

I presented it to my pal one night during play-time.  After he finished testing its weight (”Damn this is heavy,” quoth he) and marveling over its surface (”So shiny!”), he added some lube and came at me with it.  Because I was slightly terrified of the larger end — it’s 2″ across — I had him start with the thinner end.  It was absolutely perfect.

See the ridges in the picture?  Wow.  So intense on the g-spot!  There was much writhing, much gushing, and oh very much screaming.  I didn’t expect such an explosive reaction from the ridges.

After enjoying excellent results with the smaller end, my friend flipped the toy over, lubed it up once again and slid it home.  I’d expected at least some degree of discomfort from this end — it’s 2″ across! — but had none at all.  The stainless steel is so very smooth that with proper preparation and lots of lube, it worked great for me.

My friend found that the groves provided an excellent hand-grip when he was using the larger end on me.  When he switched back to my preferred smaller end, things got a little slippery for him, but it wasn’t anything that a quick wipe-down with a washcloth couldn’t handle.

Stainless steel is a wonderful material for temperature play.  Dip it in warm or cool water for a thrilling extra sensation.  Even with no additional temperature variation, I found that the Eleven grew oh so hot once it had been in me for a while.  My pal took it out and the toy rolled against my leg.  It was burning up.  The idea that my body and the toy had together generated that much raw heat got me wound up all over again.

Clean up is always easy with a non-porous toy like the Eleven.  Soap and water, an anti-bacterial cleanser, boiling or a trip through the dishwasher will leave the toy ready for its next use.  Don’t use abrasives, and be sure to store the Eleven in a place where it won’t get scratched.  If the surface is roughed up, the toy’s beauty will be dimmed, but its functionality will remain intact.

To the designer of the Eleven, I say THANK YOU.  Thank you very much.  May I make you a batch of my almost famous gingerbread cookies to express my gratitude?  Or maybe a couple batches?

It’s the least I could do.

I told the owner of Luscious Playthings that I liked my toys large, and he listened.

He listened so well that he sent along the extra-large version of their Gold Spot Rosebud Plug, and wow isn’t it huge.  Weighing in at 13.5 ounces, this plug measures 5.5″ by 2.5″, making it a possibility only for those with lots of anal experience.

Never fear; if you’re enchanted by the looks of this plug but want something more manageable, it’s also available in three smaller sizes from GlassFantasy.com.  The smallest is but 1.25″ in diameter, which is ideal for a novice.  There’s a choice here for everyone.

Once you’ve decided on an appropriate size you’re all set, because you won’t have to worry one bit about the other aspects of the toy.  All the Luscious Playthings toys I’ve had the pleasure of owning have been lovingly hand-created, so dimensions may vary slightly from those given.

This particular product ships with a padded storage case, which is nice, as purchasing one separately will set you back close to $20, and glass toys must be protected from chips and scratches when they are not safely ensconced in some lucky bottom.

While glass is considerably more expensive than acrylic, jelly or rubber, it has the advantage of being a life-long toy.  With proper care, this toy could be passed on to future generations, and it will never absorb icky bacteria, odors or stains. It can be shared safely amongst friends because it can be sterilized by a brief boiling.  For everyday cleaning, a wash with hot water and soap would work perfectly.

The gradual taper of the Gold Spot Rosebud Plug means that entry into the bottom will be easy.  The very thin neck insures that the toy will stay put no matter how hard the orgasm, and the flat base keeps it from slipping too far inside.  Like other plugs with round bases, the Gold Spot’s base is more than comfy for an hour or two spent in bed, but it’s not ideal for longer-term wear.  Choose something silicone for that.

Because I am quite a trooper, I lubed up and ever so slowly tried to coerce this almost one-pound chunk of glass into my ass.  It was just too much; eventually I had to admit defeat.  The  Gold Spot will have to find a home with someone who has greater experience (or relaxation capabilities) than do I.

I can’t believe I’ve come to the end of this review without having mentioned the beauty of the Gold Spot.  Pale pink elongated dots dance around the circumference of the toy (which, by the way, is approximately 8″ in the extra-large model, yikes).  They are faintly tinged with shades of purple and golden which shift as the toy is rotated.  It’s lovely.

Chose the Gold Spot for its beauty and quality construction.  Rest assured that no matter your level of anal experience, there will be a size appropriate for you.

Wow, I was so not expecting to like this set, as I have had an irrational fear of hot wax.  Silly me!

Made by Jimmyjane, the inimitable manufacturer of high-end toys, the Contour M+Afterglow Sensory Set is meant to simulate a hot stone massage.  The set includes a Pink Lotus scented massage oil candle, ceramic massage stone, matches and instructional booklets.  Everything is packaged in a pretty pink box.

The set’s presentation was so attractive that I ripped into it right away.  I was alone for the evening, and while I’d generally prefer to use something so luscious with a partner, I convinced myself to have at it alone.

Now don’t let your over-eager nature get the best of you.  Do take a moment to read the directions; there are specific suggestions included so that you can get the most out of the product.

The massage stone fits nicely into the hand in either direction.  It can be used with the rounded side down for a more gentle massage, or with the points down for deeper penetration.

Being the mostly vanilla girl I am, I was more than a little hesitant to use the melted wax on my skin.  I know that massage candles are designed to melt at comfortable temperatures, but feeling is believing. I didn’t trust that the wax wouldn’t burn my skin right off until I carefully poured some of the melted wax into the massage stone’s underside and dipped in my finger.  It was warm to the touch, but I was in no danger of burns as I poured the oil over my arms and legs.

The wax stayed slippery for quite some time as I ran the stone along my body.  Eventually I ran the slippery stone between my legs, and while I’m not sure that clitoral massage was the intended use of this product, it felt really nice.

The candle sports a floral scent that isn’t overwhelmingly feminine, although I’m not sure that many men would care to wear it into work. A quick wash with soap and water is all it takes to remove the scent.  If you enjoy the scent though, you’ll not have to worry about greasiness as it absorbs almost completely into the skin.

It’s really only a very small criticism, but I was disappointed to find tiny areas on the base of the massage stone that were lacking glaze.  I don’t think this would be anything other than a cosmetic issue; the spots with no glaze were undetectable during massage.

I really appreciated the fact that the set includes matches.  I can imagine the frustration that would happen if one were to take this kit on a romantic getaway only to discover too late that there was no way to light the candle.

When the candle is gone, a replacement can be purchased from Jimmyjane.com, or you could use the massage stone with another high-quality massage oil or candle.

The perfect gift for a romantic night, anniversary or honeymoon, the Contour M+Afterglow Sensory Set will give years of massage enjoyment.

I’d had my eye on the Lelo Mia from AdultSensations.ca for two reasons.  First, I’ve really enjoyed every other Lelo toy I’ve tried.  Second, it’s just so darn cute!

I mean really, do you see the cute?  How could you miss the cute?

At the size of a fat tube of lipstick, Mia could easily travel in purse for on-the-road masturbatory emergencies.  Its smooth, unassuming exterior makes it look like anything but a sex toy.

And here is the best part.  Mia is a rechargeable vibe, so you never have to buy batteries or fumble to get them placed correctly in the toy.  But Mia does not recharge in a wall outlet, ohhhh no!

The ingenious folks at Lelo created Mia to charge in your computer’s USB port.

Yes, you read that correctly.   Mia juts from the side of your computer for charging, looking exactly like a cute pink jump drive.  It emits a blinking light which glows steadily when fully charged, which should take about two hours.  Is that not the coolest thing ever?

Pushing the toy’s “+” button turns it on to a steady vibration, which can be increased or decreased by pushing the “+” and “-” buttons repeatedly.  Once on the highest level of steady vibration, holding down the “+” button will cycle the toy through three more modes of pulsating vibration.  For travel, simple hold the “+ and “-” buttons together and the toy will be locked.  This is a lovely feature if you plan on keeping Mia in your purse.  Or your laptop bag.

A low hum is all a listener would hear, even when Mia’s buzzing away on its highest speed.  A full charge provides up to four hours of tingly fun, though I’m sure this time would be greatly diminished if you used Mia on its highest settings.

Which is, of course, how I tested Mia.  It’s no Hitachi, but Mia’s plenty strong for an on-the-road or on-the-sly wank.  It’s also excellent for rubbing knots out of shoulders, relaxing typed-out hands, or rubbing over airport-sore feet.  And its tiny size make it excellent for use between bodies during intercourse.

Mia’s made of hard plastic with a silicone pad covering the keys.  Use only a water-based lube, as a silicone lube could damage the silicone pad.

Like the other fabulous Lelo products I’ve tried, Mia arrives in a sedate black box.  Inside you’ll find the toy, an end cap which protects the USB plug when it’s in use, a short USB cable, a black storage bag and usage instructions.  Lelo toys carry a one-year warranty against manufacturing defects, which is an unexpected and welcome bonus for an adult product.

I’d highly recommend Mia for road-weary, vibration-loving travelers everywhere.

I love both the shape and the feel of the New Wave Dildo created by Jildos.com.  It comes with a velvety drawstring storage bag, instructions, polishing cloth and wax.  After you empty all these interesting components onto your bed, you’ll want to take some time just to appreciate the New Wave’s beauty.

The toy consists of five fat bloops strung along a 8″ length of American Maple.  Its surface is so smooth that it almost feels frictionless, with a deep shine that highlights the grain of the wood.  I was (and still am) fascinated by the intricacies of the grain; I love the loops, the stripes, and the incredible deep glow.

I tried out the New Wave by myself first.  The bloops felt great as I ran the toy over my clit and labia.  After adding a little lube, I slipped it inside.  It was an interesting sensation.  The large different between the swells and dips made for an intense feeling and excellent pressure on the g-spot.

Another day, my friend and I took the New Wave to bed and found another wonderful use for it.  Massage.  I slathered on some massage oil and used the toy to rub out the kinks in his back and legs.  He purred like a well-fed tiger.

My partner also loved the feel of the toy on the soles of his feet.  I ran two beads down his arches with as much pressure as he could stand, and judging from the noises coming from the head of the bed, I think I might have given him a footgasm.

He used the toy on my back and upper thighs.  Is it possible to have a thighgasm?  If so, I had one.

I loved the frictionless feeling of the toy in my hands.  It became so slippery with massage oil that it rolled between my hands and my friend’s body, providing a very comfortable experience for both giver and receiver.

The bloops would probably feel really nice in the bottom of someone with a lot of anal experience, but I didn’t try this.  The very rounded (instead of tapered) ends seemed a little too challenging for me.  If you decide to employ the New Wave in the ass, use care.  There’s no flange to prevent it from going all the way in, and you’d have the devil’s own time trying to get this toy back out again.

Jilda hand-crafts her sensuous toys from woods harvested in a sustainable, environmentally-friendly manner.  Her products are meticuously sanded and coated with a durable, body-safe finish that works with all kinds of lubes. I’ve found that silicone lube is particularly lovely with wooden toys, giving them a long-lasting silkiness that feels wonderful in the body.

The New Wave Dildo would work best for folks interested in intense internal stimulation or relaxing massage.  Or both.  Enjoy.

Without a doubt, the Twilight Glass Butt Plug is one of the most beautiful toys I own.

The image above, while gorgeous, doesn’t do this sweet little toy justice.  It cannot show how gradually, how delicately, the color fades from deep at the tip to clear at the base of the bulb.

Nor can the picture capture the diminutive nature of this toy.  Suffice it to say that this would be a wonderful gift for someone who craves a toy in the behind but who is nervous about using something too large.

Luscious Playthings makes these glass plugs by hand, so dimensions might vary just a bit.  A  glass toy will be wonderfully responsive to temperature (warm or chill in a bowl of water; test before inserting) and easy to clean, either in hot soapy water or with an antibacterial toy wash.  I love the fact that glass can be sterilized by boiling or with a 10% bleach solution.  This means the toy can be cleaned and then shared amongst friends with no worry about bacteria or odors.  This particular glass piece doesn’t ship with a padded storage bag, so plan on wrapping it in a towel and storing it somewhere safe between uses.

A good friend of mine found herself in the unenviable position of having had a bad experience with anal play ages ago; she wanted a gentle reintroduction to butt-luv from people she trusted.  She requested some time with my partner and myself, and being the sorts who love nothing more than to help out a pal, we readily agreed.

Our nervous (but enthusiastic!) friend warmed the Twilight Plug in her hand as we got her very, very excited.  Traditional methods were employed along with lots of digital and oral attention to her bottom.  When she was squealing (yes, squealing) with pleasure I asked if she’d like to use the plug.

“Yes, please,” was her answer.  After releasing it from her orgasmic clutch and lubing both her and the plug (silicone lube works well for this purpose), I pushed it gently against her ass.  The Twilight Plug’s gradual taper and smooth glassiness made it easy for her to relax as she took the plug in.

A very thin neck allowed her muscles to hold onto the plug as my partner and I got her off some more.  All participants deemed our little project an unmitigated success.

If you’re looking for a plug for longer-term wear, this probably isn’t the one.  The round base is perfectly comfortable during an orgasm or three, but it’s not the best choice if you’re planning on bounding across the backyard while wearing it.

The Twilight Plug is available in but one small size.  While it’s excellent for beginners, those with even a moderate amount of anal experience will yearn for something larger.

But that’s ok too.  After it’s outgrown, the Twilight Plug can be placed in the china hutch or curio cabinet for proud display.  Most people will think it’s just a pretty.

And those who know better?  Don’t be surprised if they ask to borrow it.

I Rub My Duckie from Babeland is by far the cutest sex toy I currently own.  Honestly, could I ever hope to own a sex toy that’s any cuter?  Unless they start making sex toys in the shape of My Pretty Pony or Elmo, I DON’T THINK SO.

(Just for the record?  An Elmo-shaped vibe would totally disturb me.  If you make one, I don’t want to see it.)

I Rub My Duckie is made by Big Teaze Toys, the company responsible for the very nice Onye and Tuyo vibes.  It is almost the epitome of discretion, in that it could be left in the bathroom without much fear that visitors would know of your lil’ shower masturbatory antics, unless they pick up the toy and notice how strangely heavy it is, or examine the duck’s butt and find the word “massager” imprinted there.

I Rub My Duckie is said both to float and to be completey immune to the effects of water.  Mine sheds water like (wait for it) a duck, but the floating?  Not so much.  It lists, I’m sorry to say, and while the motor itself emits nothing but a deep hum easily covered by the bathroom fan, when the toy comes into contact with the tub it sets everything a’shakin’.

As far as power goes, this duck works best as an appetizer instead of the entree.  Someone put off by industrial-strength or sci-fi-like sex toys would enjoy the relatively mild vibrations and sweet appearance of this toy.  Unless you’re selecting it for the owner of a very sensitive clit, it’s probably not going to give Richter Scale orgasms.

For general massage though it’s very nice.  Draw a hot bath, climb in with a trashy novel and rub all cares away.  With those big innocent eyes, who could worry about anything?

I do love me some pretty glass sex toys, and the Dichroic Wrapped G-Spot Dildo from Phallix’s All Glass Sex Toys is most assuredly pretty.  In fact, after the closest possible examination I can with all confidence say that it is the most beautiful glass toy I currently own.

The shaft is long and clear, ringed by a swirl of dichroic glass.  This type of glass contains extremely thin layers of metal oxides; the glass reflects light differently depending on the angle at which it is viewed.  When I first handled the Dichroic Wrapped G-Spot Dildo, I thought the swirl put off a gradually blended range of blue tones.  But moving it back and forth in my hands brought out an entire rainbow of shades which shifted as I tilted the toy.

With its flared base, it can be used it in the behind without fear.  This base also allows the toy to stand proudly upright, for possible display in that lighted curio cabinet in the dining room?  Maybe?

The toy’s shaft curves gently, which makes for intense g-spot stimulation, especially if the toy is in the hands of a master.  My particular g-spot master angled the Dichroic Wrapped upward, rubbing the solid glass head hard against the upper surface of my vagina.  And can I just say?  Oh fuck yeah it felt good.

The swirl of glass that looks so pretty outside the body felt great inside the body, providing a continual yet gentle ribbed sensation.  It occurred to me while the toy was in my vagina that the clear shaft might make an excellent means to viewing the cervix; alas, my partner was too transfixed on my orgasms to peek inside.  But I wish someone would.  And then tell me what can be seen.

Glass sex toys are wonderful for temperature play; make sure to use only moderate heat or cold.  They can easily be cleaned with soap and water or a trip through the dishwasher with no detergent.  An antibacterial toy cleanser would also work.  Glass will not absorb stains, odors or germs, making it perfect for use in the behind and also between partners.

If properly cared for, a glass toy will last a lifetime.  Store it in the included protective pouch and protect it from nicks and dings.  Glass toys are far more sturdy than one might imagine, but dropping a glass dildo on a hard floor could possibly crack it.

The Dichroic Wrapped G-Spot Dildo would make a generous gift for a pair of lovers fascinated by the beauty, durability and functionality of glass sex toys.