Just wanted to post a quick public thank-you to Isabella Valentine. She sent the nicest gift in the mail, to me and Vamp, just in appreciation for the website and reviews. Now I will confess, when she wrote asking if she could get the mailing address, I expected what I didn’t need: something adult like […]

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Here’s another toy that makes me just a tad jealous that I’m not a woman. The Laya Spot is an ergonomically-designed vibrator that fits perfectly into the palm of your hand and is contoured to comfortably stimulate the clitoris and the vulva. At your fingertips is a pair of buttons that allow […]

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This is one of those rare toys that manages to capture the best of two worlds: the BDSM heat with the relaxing sensuality of a warm massage oil.  Here is why.  The Body Wax Candle is actually made of soy and essential oils that melt at a lower temperature than traditional wax.  The benefit is […]

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Genius.  That’s what it is: pure genius.  The good folks over at Vixen Creations have been hard at work in their laboratories trying to come up with a 100 percent silicone dildo that feels like an actual penis.  And by George, I think they’ve done it.  The Tex, the first in a line of dildos […]

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MacGyver had one of these, I’m pretty sure.  And so should you if you are the type that likes to have their sex toys handy at all times or, at the very least, likes to get the most bang for your buck.  On the one hand, it’s a simple yet attractive black leather belt that […]

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I’ve been out of the office way too much in the past week, between kid birthdays and everything else going on. Yesterday Elliott came with me into the city on pilates day, and then I spent the rest of the afternoon tagging along like a little kid as he had various business meetings. The one […]

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Last week I wrote about non-sexual play, and how I enjoyed taking small trophies from the women I played with as part of creating an intimate moment without having a sexual relationship. This article generated a great deal of feedback on my blog and number of excellent comments. One question that stood out for me […]

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She just left, walking a little wobbly and smiling a smile that says, “I’ve just done something incredibly naughty and loved it!”. Her wrists still bore the slight impressions of the rope, and the crotch of her $200 jeans is visibly soaked through, but she does not care. My tiny loft space/office looks like a […]

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I admit it, I have a total fear of the telelphone. I don’t know why exactly, but I think it has far more to do with my years working for an airline in telephone reservations than it does with my few short months as a phonesex operator. heh.
So I lost my PADI dive card, sometime […]

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the trip to Jamaica that is. And going diving again. I was looking into underwater housing for my current camera, but then after wandering around Adorama a bunch I ended up ordering this underwater camera today. Can’t wait to try it out on the trip. The last time we were in warm diving water, we […]

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