I must confess that I really enjoy the act of aftercare. Of all the skills that I have acquired and practiced along this journey I have undergone to be an SM top, this is one of the skills that I think is often most overlooked. Folks are very eager to learn the ins and outs […]
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What follows is my proposed script for a short Public Service Announcement that would be played before the previews at adult theaters and peepshow booths.
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Scene opens: (a 3rd string celebrity male dressed in khakis and a button down shirt smiles at the camera.)
“Hello, I’m (some guy you have a vague recollection of) you might […]
Last week I wrote about non-sexual play, and how I enjoyed taking small trophies from the women I played with as part of creating an intimate moment without having a sexual relationship. This article generated a great deal of feedback on my blog and number of excellent comments. One question that stood out for me […]
She just left, walking a little wobbly and smiling a smile that says, “I’ve just done something incredibly naughty and loved it!”. Her wrists still bore the slight impressions of the rope, and the crotch of her $200 jeans is visibly soaked through, but she does not care. My tiny loft space/office looks like a […]
These are some crazy and long days here at the Abbey, the shop where we make all our lovely rope. Our next major public sales event, KinkFest, is coming up in a few weeks in Portland, OR. This event has a special place in our hearts; see, this was the very first leather conference we […]
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Yes, dear readers, it is that time. Every sex columnist has to do at least one rant about the dire state of online dating. Now there have been some amazing and funny rants on this subject already written. While entertaining, these all seem to focus on the foibles and failings of men and what they […]
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Tucked into a corner booth at our favorite pizza joint one rainy Seattle night, my secondary partner Dancer and I were deep in conversation. The topic? Fantasy fulfillment. More specially, fantasies we have refused to fulfill for others. Sure they’re any number of things I have refused to do because they were too dangerous, too […]
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Who the Hell is This Guy?
There is a sound a woman makes when she has given into her lust - a sound you don’t hear so much as feel, as it reverberates thorough your loins and up to the back of your skull. That low, almost feral growl tinted with sharp tones of pleasure. She […]
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