Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive

This is the journal of a young female slave who is "owned". It is still a rather new diary, but she is obviously doing a lot of thinking about her personal responsibility and identity in this style of relationship. On top of all the personal soul searching, she also offers up D/s erotica. I think it would be most interesting to folks who are new to the lifestyle and want communication with someone else who has just started out.- Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2006-04-21
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: BDSM Fiction, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, D / S, Sado-masochism (S/M)

This journal of a slave with a Master is often illustrated with pictures of a highly graphic nature (that sometimes show blood). Her thoughts and feelings are well presented and extremely literate. The power exchange is extreme and rough, so it may be a bit much for some folks to read easily. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2006-03-14
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Sado-masochism (S/M)

This is a blog about one woman’s experience with spanking. Bonnie writes with a great deal of humour. This makes her entries entertaining and fun to read. Bonnie also writes original fiction. I was completely entranced by some of the stories. If you are curious about why people are interested in spanking and what exactly it does for them, you might want to check out some of Bonnie’s tutorials. They provide some interesting insight into the world of spanking. This is definitely a site I’ll be keeping an eye on. - Koi

Date Reviewed: 2006-03-11
Cost: Free Advertising Content: None
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Spanking

This is the blog of a 30-something submissive woman with a Master and a son. She speaks very frankly about her sexual experiences in life, including some rather abusive instances in her childhood. I found it to be a very honest read filled with humor, tragedy, and lust. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2006-02-21
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, D / S

This is the heartbreakingly honest blog of a submissive slave named Taylor. While many online journals avoid mentioning difficult bits of truth, Taylor runs head long into them. She talks about a painful childhood of sexual abuse and parental alcoholism, as well as her current life with a Master (a married man named Rush that she met on a massively multiplayer online roleplay game). She writes often, in-depth, and introspectively. I felt very protective of her while reading her blog, as I could identify with many parts of her journey (and hoped with my whole heart that it would all turn out well). Since the initial review, Rush has been writing more and more, so this is turning into more of a coupleblog. » More Info!

Date Reviewed: 2006-01-04
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Blogs / Journals - Couples, D / S, Sado-masochism (S/M)

This blog is a cooperative venture between a female dominant and her male submissive. These folks are prodigious writers. If you are a blogger, you may have heard about the NaNo novel challenge. This author finished with a 50,500 word project! Most of the journal is about their sex lives. I love that they clearly mark which stories are true and which ones aren't. They are very into strap on sex, so if that is your thing don‘t miss it. - Vamp » More Info!

Date Reviewed: 2005-11-30
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: alternative / sci-fi erotica, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Blogs / Journals - Couples, Female Domination

Ageplay is an often misunderstood interest, especially when it is sexual in nature. It is a type of roleplay in which a person acts a different age than they really are. In this case, Benjamin is a grown man who has taken on the role of a young boy in a roleplay relationship with his non-biologically related "Mommy". It appears that Benjamin is mostly interested in men, but that his Mommy is the exception to the rule. He writes about his daily erotic life with her and his thoughts on being a grown up little boy in this blog (hosted on blogspot). It is fascinating and very titillating (if this fetish appeals to you). It is extremely sexual in nature, so if you are strictly into regressive stuff you'll want to stay away.

Date Reviewed: 2005-09-19
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive

Dare I confess that this website was my first bdsm experience. Perhaps this is why I became completly engaged in the large amount of content and personal accounts of Pet's experience as slave to her Master from 2001-2004. Pet writes beautifully with many profound, very real, and empowering messages to her readers. The complicated relationship between Master and slave is compelling and intriguing, giving a deep understanding of the bdsm lifestyle. I know I will re-visit this site. I found myself clicking on links to Pet's old web page, her Yahoo profile, the Master's personal profile and thought process, as well as links to spirituality, online and real time relationships and of course the plethora of well written journal entries by Pet.

Date Reviewed: 2005-06-07
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive

I love blogs that are authentic and intelligent accounts of sexuality, rather than the vapid bubblegum marketing of many mainstream porn sites with fake "journals". This is obviously one of the authentic ones, written by a woman that has spent a very long time feeling distanced from her sexuality. She shows you that an intelligent feminist mommy can be a smoldering volcano of submissive lust as well. She details her life with her husband, who she has been married to for around 9 years. They seem to love lingerie, toys, and spanking quite a bit. I think that this is a really great blog for anyone wanting to read about real submission.

Date Reviewed: 2005-06-06
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive

There are a lot of blogs out there on the web written by submissive women, but not a lot like this one. Most women who put one of these together are rather new to their feelings and still talking about the ecstasy (and forgetting to mention the hardships). This isn't the case with Magdala. She has been at this for some time, and she has become grounded enough in her activities to see the confusion and the negative emotions that can sometimes come forward in such situations as well. She talks very frankly and at length about her true feelings, and doesn't care if she sounds like the perfect submissive in every sentence. Some of her entries are hot recollections of scenes, while others are gut wrenching tales of inner conflict and need. A very interesting read!

Date Reviewed: 2005-04-19
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive

Spanking enthusiasts take note! This is the online blog of a self-proclaimed brat who loves to be spanked. She discusses how she shops for toys, how she deliberately mishears that she gets a "prize" (rather than pays a price) for misbehaving, and how her partner, Dan, loves to spank her. She says she is not into age-play of any kind, yet she seems to delight in showing us her new "Hello Kitty" panties and in taunting Dan in the aisles of Wal-Mart. It's a well-written journal of her erotic and mundane life, with an emphasis on being spanked.

Date Reviewed: 2005-03-31
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Spanking

This journal/blog, online since November '04, is from a male submissive point of view. It's very well-written and introspective about the hows and whys of his kink, some of the entries about the all-important balance of real life and bdsm. There are several categories listed on the sidebar, with different topics. He's fairly new to exploring this side of himself, I hope the blog continues as things grow and change. It's really cool when people share their personal journeys this way.

Date Reviewed: 2005-02-15
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive

It is always so much fun to review a site that is put together out of sheer joy and personal exhibitionism. This journal site certainly qualifies, as Patty takes you on a very personal journey into the heart of spanking eroticism. She posts original artwork, stories, and day to day thoughts about being in a domestic discipline relationship. She doesn't pull any punches as she puts her personal views and daily life out there for the world to read. I found it delightful, bratty, loving, and sexy as hell! The links that she provides are a very good primer on some of the best spanking sites on the web. Excellent, well organized, and a hoot to read.

Date Reviewed: 2005-02-04
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Spanking

On the web for well over a year, this site has a good selection of lots of different bdsm/fetish items. Gags, blindfolds, cuffs and collars, hardware, corsets, slutty shoes & boots and more. Autumn, the site owners, adds a healthy dose of personality to the site which made me like it even more. Besides just the shopping (shopping cart application, secure ordering, privacy policy), there is also a large editorial section with discussion, Autumn's diary, kink links, and even a selection of photos of Autumn (which are lovely, btw). » More Info!

Date Reviewed: 1999-07-19
Cost: free Advertising Content: low
Category Listings: BDSM Gear, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Books / Zines, Fetish Wear, Lingerie, Mainstream Video/DVD, Sex Toys / Safer Sex Supplies