Sex Positive Goddesses

This blog is associated with Lady Jaided magazine and the full title of it is "Lady Jaided's Sex Talk for Wicked Women: Conversations with Women Who Refuse to Behave." Well, what is not to love about that? This blog discusses everything from the texture of semen to female sexual health issues and gender roles around the world. I found it fun, informative, sex-positive, and empowering. I think that folks that enjoy the tone of Jane's Guide will enjoy Susan Edwards' writing as well. Definitely stop by and give this blog a good read! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2008-07-18
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Advice / Education, Blogs / Journals - Sex, Safer Sex Info, Sex Positive Goddesses, Sexuality Info

This petite beauty from Nevada has dark hair that flows all the way down to her knees. I was mesmerized! She currently works as a legal courtesan in the Reno area, and she used to work at the Lusty Lady in San Francisco (during the period in which the strippers bought the club). She really enjoys sex work, and talks about her life as a sex worker in an intelligent and positive fashion. The site is fascinating to visit even if you aren't a member, but if you sign up you'll gain access to around 26 galleries containing a total of about 900 pictures. Most of them show her involved in solo masturbation, vaginal and oral sex, posing in lingerie, lathering up, shaving, or showing off her feet while wearing stockings. There are a few pics of her days at the Lusty Lady and such as well. It is all original content, and she often comments on the photo shoot. She enjoys a lot of retro porn and vintage lingerie, and that often shows in the poses and such that she chooses. Sexy, smart, and you can even visit her if you are in Nevada. I still can't get over that long gorgeous hair! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2008-06-30
Cost: $19.95/month recurring Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Hardcore, Panties/Stockings, Sex Positive Goddesses, Sex Work Info

This site it ground zero for Lust Films, an adult audiovisual production company based in Spain and guided by director Erika Lust. Erika has produced award winning films such as The Good Girl, and has just released Five Explicit Stories for Smart Girls. Her porn is women oriented, which she says means that it has more style, humor, deeper characters, better music, and more realistic sex. From the teaser that I saw, it lives up to the hype. She has a journal on blogspot, and she is always looking for new talent to work with. Her contact info and information about projects are found on the site. It has a very clever design, but there is sound on the index page so be sure not to surf here unless it is okay for people to hear you. I must admit that I became confused when it asked if I liked boys or girls at the start, since I like both very much. They need an option labeled, "Yes, please. Neither one as well." Both options take you to similar information, just a different picture and sound effects. Very cute! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2007-05-25
Cost: Free Advertising Content: low
Category Listings: Amateur / Indie Video / DVD, Blogs / Journals - Sex, Sex Positive Goddesses

Originally known as "The Cunting Linguist" blog, this journal is sort of a combination of personal diary entries and how-to articles related to sex. Steff is a confident woman that approaches sexuality in a pragmatic and mature fashion, but doesn't let that lead to a lot of stuffy language. Some of the most worthwhile advice I've ever seen about being a good lover is here, "Being a good lover is: A) Knowing what you like, dislike, and love. B) Knowing how to express your needs. C) Being open-minded without compromising yourself, whatever that might mean for you. D) Not judging your lover’s desires, but being true to yourself so you’re not going to resent them after the fact." Great advice! She has many other articles with titles like "Kissing: Oh So Telling" and "Bondage for Beginners". I recommend this one wholeheartedly! Until she has transferred her whole archive over to the new URL, you might want to check out her early articles at cuntinglinguist.blogspot.com/ - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2006-10-25
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Advice / Education, BDSM Resources, Blogs / Journals - Sex, Sex Positive Goddesses, Sexuality Info

I've kinda known Jamye for a few years now, since she produced the show "Love Bytes with Bob Berkowitz" for online radio. Back then, I did a weekly guest spot with Bob. Since that time, she's immersed herself in all things sex, obtaining a Masters degree in sex education, and writing several columns for various publications. This personal site has bio info, an often-updated weblog, an advice section, links to her various print columns, and a whole bunch of podcasts on various sexual topics. There is also info about the workshops she teaches, and contact info if you'd like to book her for a workshop. - Jane

Date Reviewed: 2006-09-27
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Advice / Education, Internet Radio Podcasts, Sex Positive Goddesses

Ann is a contributing editor to Clean Sheets, and a darn good writer! Her personal site links to many of her articles (which are often based on her real life experiences), poems, blog, and erotic fiction. There are also links to several ebooks that she has written, and Amazon links to various anthologies that she has contributed to. Her work falls squarely into the category that I privately think of as "literary smut". It generally has quite a bit of character development and an emphasis on dialogue and story. The sex is a tool of the storytelling, and it reveals the characters rather than the characters simply revealing the sex. Great stuff! Don't miss it! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2006-09-21
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Advice / Education, alternative / sci-fi erotica, Blogs / Journals - Sex, Books / Zines, mainstream erotica, Sex Positive Goddesses

I have been remiss in not getting this review done a whole lot sooner, although I know we've written about Seska here at JanesGuide in the past. Seska is one of the very few remaining internet "amateurs" who still run their own sites. Back in the late 90s, there was a boom of amateur sites, but sadly most of these have gone - some in 5 years, many in less than 1. Hey, I should know - I ran my own personal site aside from JanesGuide during 1999-2002. Anyhow, Seska is one of the most well-rounded adult personalities I know of. She is articulate, intelligent and gorgeous. In the free area of the site you can get some general info with an interesting bio, several sample images both hardcore and softcore, and lots more at her free site seska4lovers.com. If you join the paysite, you get updates almost daily in some area, be it video clips, journal entries or cam shows. You also get an archive of photos and videos going back years, and members-only journal entries in the hundreds. Seska is a member of SexCam Central, so you get her cam shows on Tuesday nights, as well as the rest of the people who perform on that network. She also gives you access to HomeGrown Videos XXX library of amateur vids, which you'll need Windows Media Player 9.0 or later to view. The photo archives have over 30,000 photos now, split into sections. The fantasy section is by far the most diverse, with everything from giving Santa a blowjob to fetish glam to wet stockings. The real sex life section has tons of hardcore and action - Seska and her husband James are polyamorous, so there are lots of threesomes, girl/girl galleries and so on. In all, this is one of the best amateur sites around. If you're a fan of sincere, "real" feeling sites, check it out. » More Info!

Date Reviewed: 2006-09-08
Cost: $8.95/7 day trial, $16.95/mo.recurring Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Downloadable Video, Hardcore, Natural Breasts, Panties/Stockings, Sex Positive Goddesses, Solo Amateurs, Webcam - Women

I dare you to read this woman's wish list and not fall madly in love with her. Lady Julia is a wonderfully gentle and sensual human being that has put together a sweet little gem of a site for folks interested in erotic hypnosis. In addition to quite a few educational articles, you'll find stories and free hypnosis mp3s. Her voice is very soothing, and I think I'd actually recommend this place for people with stress issues even if they aren't into erotic hypnosis. She links to her online blog and email list. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2006-07-11
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Advice / Education, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Female Domination, Sex Positive Goddesses, Sexuality Info

Erika Lust is the founder of the adult audiovisual production company Lust Films. In addition to this, she is a Feminist and self proclaimed "sex culture expert." Her blog is extremely entertaining, and often quite funny (although she can come across as a man basher to some). I, however, have to laugh at an industry that will attack her for talking about men in a way that would be considered "tame" if the same tone was applied to women. So, I say to the men who are offended (as they have often said to us when we are upset), "Lighten up, Babycakes!" Erika seems to find all the best online clips through iFilms, and she makes her own 21 minute porn video available for free download. I actually found myself watching it for the plot and laughing at some of the humor. How bizarre. If you like her stuff, you can follow her links to a site that offers her other films via pay-per-view. I look forward to checking in with this blog, it was actually FUN to read! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2006-06-23
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex, Humor / Satire / Silly, Sex Positive Goddesses

This site is a rather unusual one, so it didn't fit into any of our categories very easily. For example, although I will have this under "phone sex"...it isn't a number you call to talk to a phone actress. It is a number you can call to talk ABOUT sexuality with a Certified Associate in Sex Education named Joanne Lerner. As she explains, "I’m here to help you find your way, to assist you in reconnecting with your sexual truth and to help you work through any fears, shame or guilt that you may have." She specializes in trangender and crossdresser issues, but she also can assist with information about masturbation practices and techniques, areas of intimacy between life partners, and more intensive therapy. If you are in the Toronto, Ontario area you can book time face to face. She lists her background, rates, schedule, contact info, and initial intake interview questions online. She offers a complimentary 15 minute consultation to see if you are right for each other. If you like, she is open to conducting this sort of thing through email first instead. Her prices are competitive with those you'd find if you went out and shopped around for a private counselor face to face in your community. I‘d make sure to check her credentials, and I‘d say the same about any counselor. It appears that this is a very legitimate practice, however, and I think that someone who is willing to work like this is more than a little super neato. As someone who has gone to counseling herself (with a local counselor), I can attest to the fact that it can change your life in powerful and wonderful ways. I‘m a huge believer in it. It isn‘t weak to work on this stuff...it is powerful! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2006-06-20
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Advice / Education, Sex Positive Goddesses, Uncategorizable

Bella is marvelous, simply marvelous. She says, "I contribute to the porn industry because if a sexual revolution is to occur then change and honesty must be taught, learned and recognized. Because it is neccesary to accurately portray my sexual subculture. Because not all girls look like barbie and want cum on their face. Because I couldn't find the porn I wanted to look at so I made my own." Her website here has an absolutely distinctive cast to it, nothing like other smut elsewhere, which is exactly her intent. Many viewers will simply not want to look at this site, which is too bad. She portrays clearly the sorts of thing which stimulate her, which anger her, which excite her. Some of it is brutal, in societal terms - hanging from thick-gauged skin hooks makes her cum. One of the other models [she has a large cadre of them] is pictured floating in a bathtub, masturbating with a whole head of garlic. Yet another paints herself with her menstrual blood. Another masturbates by piercing her own breasts and playing with the blood drips. And the interweaving of a crucifix with labia rings, incredible. In conventional terms there is very little "hardcore" sex, but obviously conventional terms mean little here. It would take a full paragraph to list all the bent kinks she has collected here so far. She has several dozen models, at time of review, a thoroughly pierced and tat'd lot. The photography is done well, and the website is nicely organized with several different ways to search and access content. Members also have a selection of erotic stories, which are just as tilted 37 degrees off center as the photo sets. Like I said above - this isn't for everyone, but if you are anything like me, this site is definitely one of the best out there. » More Info!

Date Reviewed: 2006-05-19
Cost: $8.45/mo/recurring Advertising Content: Lowish
Category Listings: Ageplay, alternative / sci-fi erotica, amateur compilations, Female Bondage, Girls w/glasses, Goth / Vamp, Natural Breasts, Pregnant & Lactating, Sado-masochism (S/M), Sex Positive Goddesses, Tattoos / Piercings, Uncategorizable, WAM Wet / Messy

I'm in love! This site was created by the same woman responsible for FurryGirl.com, VegSexShop.com, and VegPorn.com. In the words of the creator it shows, "Hot models doing something neat and natural that you'll rarely see in porn...having fun and getting off while menstruating." Having made a lot of homemade erotic art myself, I can tell you that one of the most shocking things a woman can do is one of the most natural and beautiful markers of biological womanhood...bleed. How this natural function of our sexuality became so mired in fear and taboo is beyond me, but this site challenges all that and has the guts to show women at their most natural and CELEBRATES them in that state. You won't see any demeaning language or words/actions that cast this in some sort of "freakish" light. This is natural, and that is exactly how it is treated. The site is still new, so there are just over 722 pics and 5 movies (with sound). Most of the images show masturbation or softcore posing, but some show hardcore heterosexual sex or lesbian sensuality. The models are a refreshing mix of body types, ethnic backgrounds, and lifestyles. They have plenty of space to explore their minds as well as their bodies in blogs and editorial content. You'll see lots of body hair, body art, and real curves. This is indie sex positive feminist porn at its best! The site states that, "Erotic Red stands as an proud outpost of sense and sensuality in a world of internet porn gone terribly crappy." I absolutely agree. It was a refreshing breath of fresh air to see women joyously exploring themselves without shame in a nurturing and female friendly space. Absolutely gorgeous. This sort of site is absolutely why I‘m in this business. - Vamp » More Info!

Date Reviewed: 2006-02-22
Cost: $12.00 / month (recurring) Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Advice / Education, amateur compilations, Blogs / Journals - Sex, Downloadable Video, Hardcore, hirsute, Natural Breasts, Sex Positive Goddesses, Sexuality Info, Uncategorizable

I have to admit it, some of my favorite things to review are blogs. As soon as I see one in our list of sites to review, I can't wait to go take a look at it. I surf them during my work time and during my free time, and I have to tell you this is a new favorite. Cherry Bomb is without question one of the freshest new writers on sexuality that I've run into in awhile. She has a very frank, educated, and honest approach that made me literally have to tear myself away in order to get my job done. I could have sat here reading all day long (or at least till I'd read everything). A little about Cherry? She is a young beautiful woman in New York City who works at a sex toy store (and who also sells advertising for an alternative porn site). Throughout her blog you'll find original pieces of writing that run the spectrum from amusing anecdotes to educational feminist essays. Her pictures are gorgeous, but it is her mind that will keep you coming back for more. As I read through her writing, I found that I kept wanting to quote her in the review...but I couldn't figure out which quote to use! Ah...so refreshing. I think this bit of wisdom sort of sums her up though, "The point is, if you want to get laid, go hunt someone down on Craig’s List. If you want to get fucked, wander into a relationship without any idea of what you want or what the other person needs, and you’ll find out exactly what I mean." A wonderful queer woman that is begging for celebrity in my opinion. Bravo! - Vamp » More Info!

Date Reviewed: 2006-01-27
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Advice / Education, Blogs / Journals - Sex, GBLT Resources, Sex Positive Goddesses, Solo Amateurs

Few people qualify for the title "Sex Positive Goddess" more than Dolores French, who is a writer, civil rights activist, safer sex advocate, talk show regular, erotic phone consultant, prostitute, and professional dominatrix. She founded the group H.I.R.E (Hooking Is Real Employment - which is an advocacy organization for prostitutes) and has served on the Mayor’s Task Force on Prostitution in the City of Atlanta. She has also been a consultant to the Centers for Disease Control (CDC) in a study on prostitution and AIDS. Basically, if there has been a venue for her to express her intelligence, creativity, politics, and sensuality...she's explored it! This is both a personal and professional website with plenty of writing to satisfy activists (and the curious), as well as professional information about phone work and dominance. She has a 15 minute minimum on phone sessions and can handle both two and three way calls. Her specialties as a dominant include, "Mommy worship, erection training, sensual slavery, mummification, CBT, crossdressing, humiliation, painful adornment, and corporal punishment of every kind." You'll find everything from poetry to artwork here. Whether you are planning on booking a session or not, I recommend her site as a place to learn about a very fascinating and charming woman. » More Info!

Date Reviewed: 2006-01-10
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Advice / Education, Ageplay, D / S, Female Domination, Phonesex, Regional Guide, Sex Positive Goddesses, Sex Work Info, Sexuality Info

Heather Corinna wears many hats: artist, writer, sex educator and activist, model and more. She runs Scarlet Letters as well as Scarleteen which is a sex ed site for teens. This site however is for adults, and it's truly the best of it's genre. In fact in some ways it defies being categorized because there is so little like it online. For free users, you'll find a few samples of each new photo set she posts. Lately the work is mostly hers, often with lovely self-portraits, other times with guest models. You'll find an update log right past the entry page to see what's new. You get current journal entries, a mix of day to day journal, poetry and photos (G rated on up) and a little bit of free reading in the non-journal sections of poetry annd prose. If you become a member, you get everything, which as of now is quite a lot. The journal dates back to 1999. The photo sets are well over 100 now with over 3,000 images. I browsed for quite a long time through galleries from years ago and galleries from last week. Pinup, fine art nude, couples, noir, there is just a lot to look at. New sets are posted usually 2-4 times a month. The site has a wonderful, sexy yet intimate tone, as Heather interacts with her readers in forums and comments, and has an approachable, friendly writing style. Doesn't hurt that Heather is a gorgeous redhead, with a body that shows the effects of her passion for kickboxing either. Not amateur, definitely not mainstream pornstar, yet undeniably erotic. Bias alert: Ms. Corinna is a good friend of mine. :) » More Info!

Date Reviewed: 2005-12-02
Cost: $14.95 1st mo., $12.95/mo. thereafter Advertising Content: None
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex, fine art nudes, Fine Art Prints, for women, mainstream erotica, Sex Positive Goddesses, Solo Amateurs

Hanne Blank is a writer whose work is not easily categorized. She writes extensively on sexuality, history, culture and size acceptance amongst other things. She's published a couple of outstanding anthologies of erotic fiction: 'Shameless', which is one of my all-time favorite collections, and 'Zaftig: Well Rounded Erotica'. Her first solo effort was 2003's 'Unruly Appetites'. This personal page has media clips, book excerpts and info, photos, and resource links for blogging, size acceptance and sexuality.

Date Reviewed: 2005-12-02
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Advice / Education, Books / Zines, Sex Positive Goddesses, Sexuality Info

Josey Vogels is a sex, relationship and dating columnist in Canada. This personal site offers both of her columns: 'My Messy Bedroom' and 'Dating Girl', which are published weekly, as well as a very active discussion board, publicity and event photos, and info on the several books she's written.

Date Reviewed: 2005-11-30
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Advice / Education, Books / Zines, Sex Positive Goddesses

Merryl Sloane is a sex educator and activist based out of Arizona. The website has info on the workshops she regularly teaches, which include sex and gender workshops, polyamory, how to ask for what you need, and so on. She also offers sex counseling to individuals and couples. The site has a calendar posted when she is touring, info on contacting her, and a couple of great checklists to go through with a partner - one fairly mainstream, the other delving into alternative sex and BDSM.

Date Reviewed: 2005-11-30
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Advice / Education, Sex Positive Goddesses, Sexuality Info

Homepage for anal sexpert Tristan Taormino, whose numerous credits include editor of On Our Backs magazine, columnist for the Village Voice, the book "Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women", the award-winning spinoff movie, and editing the Best Lesbian Erotica anthologies. Whew, that was a mouthful. :) At the site, you can read a column or two from the Voice, check out her anal advice column (or send in a question of your own) or purchase her books or video. You can also see a movie clip or two from her videos, the most recent of which is "House of Ass". Audio warning! the movie file launches when you enter, and it does include sound.

Date Reviewed: 2005-11-30
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Advice / Education, Books / Zines, Mainstream Video/DVD, Sex Positive Goddesses, Sexuality Info

Susie Bright has long been at the forefront of sex-positive culture. This is her original website, which has an extensive resume, photo galleries, advice for writers, and so on. It also has many sections that now link to her weblog, which she updates quite frequently. She has a weekly show on Audible.com, and she also frequently travels for speaking engagements. I had the pleasure of seeing her when she performed at Western Washington University, and she was wonderfully funny and engaging. If you've never read Susie, (or listened to her) you need to go see what you're missing. The original sex-positive pioneer. » More Info!

Date Reviewed: 2005-11-30
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Advice / Education, Audio, Books / Zines, Sex Positive Goddesses, Sexuality Info