Blogs / Journals - Sex

A super yummy independent pansexual reality porn site...with a comic book! Every once in awhile I know that I'm just going to have to clear my schedule for a bit and make some extra time for a review, and that is definitely what I did for this place. Then, I took a short coffee break to find my partner and work off some steam. This place is super hot! Liandra self-identifies as "queer", which she defines as "...not heterosexually monogamous and being open to sex and love with people regardless of what their pink bits are." This site is full of joy, heat, and brilliance. There are around 459 pics, most of which feature the very sensual Liandra with natural body hair. If you've ever had a crush on Ani DiFranco, this woman is very reminiscent of the same vibrant and fierce sex appeal. All photos can be viewed one by one, or they can be downloaded as a zip file. The bulk of the site is in the movie area, however, which includes 93 streaming and downloadable quicktime movies showing all sorts of things from interviews to hardcore sex. Liandra brings her lovers and friends into the site, and so some of the action doesn't actually have her in it. I promise you that you will not find a bunch of tedious filler. The guests are all extremely attractive and outstanding folks to watch. I'm used to looking at how folks approach sex in porn, and these people actually surprised me quite a bit. The lesbian sex is particularly fetching here, as it is genuine sex between women that like having sex with women...rather than staged. There is tickling, masturbation, hardcore sex, puppy play, watersports, fisting, strap on sex, and a bunch of other exciting stuff. The blog is a real star of this site as well. It is a collection of thoughtful and interesting essays that discuss feminism, culture, and sex. The site encourages respectful interaction with the performers, so the forum is active and has genuine discussion going on. There is also a comic book here that makes Liandra into an adult superhero. I thought that was pretty nifty! On a personal note, I was particularly happy to see one of my own fetishes indulged here. She has absolutely lush, gorgeous, and large inner labia. So, if you share that particular interest I want to make sure to send you to this site! The price listed below is the general one, but women get 44% off of this if they contact the site owner before joining. A delightful and thoroughly sexy site run by a bunch of likable naked activists! Great! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2012-01-24
Cost: $15.00/30 days non-recurring Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: amateur compilations, BDSM / Fetish Video, Blogs / Journals - Sex, Downloadable Video, Enemas / Watersports, Hardcore, lesbian / bi, Natural Breasts, Sex Positive Goddesses, Solo Amateurs, Streaming Video, tickling, Uncategorizable

This blog shares original erotica, sex book/movie reviews, and movie clips from different tube sites. Jenny Swallows is co-author of The Nympho Librarian and Other Stories, as well as books of erotic poetry and more! If you are interested in her work, there are links to where to buy it on other sites. I found her XXX movie reviews to be a laugh riot (while also being pretty informative). Most of the time she seems to be drawn to the classics or modern day parody. I think that my absolute favorite journal entries here involve discussion and screen caps from her sexual adventures on the computer game Second Life. The only downside? Some of these porn tube videos create pop ups or start automatically. That said, she has a nice collection of clips of oral sex featuring uncut cocks (and that is a pretty nifty bonus). A neat and sexy blog! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2012-01-16
Cost: Free Advertising Content: High - pop ups
Category Listings: alternative / sci-fi erotica, Blogs / Journals - Sex, mainstream erotica, Other Web Review sites

Do you miss independent amateur porn, where you can really get to know the personality of a woman while viewing her in lots of different sexual situations? Do you wish you could make suggestions for shoots, and actually see that someone is listening? How do you feel about brunettes with legs that go on forever, and a stunning mind to match? If these questions get to the root of what you crave, then Zuzinka is definitely for you! She is a twenty-four year old woman from the Czech Republic who is financing her college education by being an exhibitionist in her blog. You can get a lot of stuff for free over here, including lots of pictures and some videos. If you want the more intimate and long (some reaching around forty minutes) videos that are all in wmv format, you'll have to subscribe to her "private area". She promises a few dozen videos, but she delivers over eighty. It isn't very often that you get far more than you paid for! The movies show a variety of action including hardcore sex, blowjobs, foot jobs, lapdances, public flashing/masturbation, spanking, very light bondage, and a lot more. I'd say this site also has a much greater amount of cunnilingus, lesbian play, sex in the car, drunken sex, and fingering than I am used to finding on amateur sites. Zuzinka often acts out scenarios suggested by her readers, and I saw evidence of a swift and enthusiastic response to those requests. It is worth noting for our international readers that she is proficient in Czech, English, Russian, German, and Japanese. A smart, sassy, and highly erotic journey into the sex life of one incredibly hot woman. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2012-01-12
Cost: 29.90/month recurring + 1.95 processing Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex, Downloadable Video, Hardcore, lesbian / bi, Solo Amateurs

Do you wonder what your astrological sign says about your sexuality? Would you like your sexual horoscope for the month? Lily Lick offers free horoscopes here, as well as a blog and a few very short essays. Her style is playful and sensual, and all of her writing has a distinctive voice. In addition to her free info, she links to retailers offering her ebook on sexuality and astrology. Saucy, cute, and a lot of fun! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2012-01-10
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex, eBooks, Sexuality Info, Uncategorizable

Jilly is a young woman from Belgium that writes a sexual blog with a very raw and tender voice. She self-describes as a virgin and talks about everything from fantasies to body issues, and comes across as someone who struggles and explores these things with a passion. Jilly is also an author of erotica/romance and has a couple of short fiction pieces about a character named Graham Conner (and the lovers he has had through the years), 8 stories inspired by the piano player/song writer Tim Minchin, and 27 short erotic tales. When I visited, the "Little Stories" section was unfortunately broken. So, I can't tell you the character of the pieces there. I'm sure the author will fix that soon, but right now I can only say that they are arranged by name and do not have blurbs or keywords. The rest of the erotica was unusual in that it focused on the relationships between characters while simultaneously avoiding most overt sexual expressions. I found that fascinating! There are links to photos, writing, and a tumblr project that she has been working on as well. Open, honest, and risky writing here. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2012-01-10
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex, mainstream erotica, Sexuality Info

Lilly is a gorgeous curvy femme that self-identifies as a pansexual queer. Her blog is a cool mixture of toy reviews, advice, photos, real life experiences, and erotic fiction. The entries are well written, and usually center around sexuality and blogging. I especially recommend her "Sex Toy Care and Cleaning Guide", as it is particularly succinct and helpful. She has a very upfront disclosure on her site, which I personally appreciate, and she doesn't simply love all of the toys she reviews. I liked that, and I took her reviews a lot more seriously. Creative, savvy, and sexy! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2012-01-08
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Advice / Education, Blogs / Journals - Sex, mainstream erotica

This is a blog by Master Michael Samadhi and his slave/wife Serafina. It is still relatively young, but I felt that the level of conversation and original pictures really warranted a review. The couple enjoys Tantra and BDSM, and they definitely communicate about their lives in a very real (and sometimes quite raw and vulnerable) way. They have BDSM and kink articles about things like Darlex and Hepatitis. Michael shares assignments that he has written for his partner. The review section is a breath of fresh air, since it deals with things like collars and EMT scissors. I didn't see any standard "sex toy" reviews, but loved reading over scene music recommendations and experiences with hemp rope suppliers. Here is a sample of the sort of thing you'll read from Michael: "If a slave is somebody who has been totally devalued, I'd not want to command them, I'd want to shelter and protect them until they felt valued and human. My style of domination isn't depersonalizing, in fact quite the opposite, it's expressed by continually pushing for growth, empowerment, and enlightenment within the rituals and devotions of submission." I don't know about you, but I find that pretty darn hot. A nice start to a thoughtful and interesting blog! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2011-12-22
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Advice / Education, BDSM Resources, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Blogs / Journals - Couples, Blogs / Journals - Sex, D / S, Safer Sex Info, Sexuality Info, Tantra

This site is suffering from not knowing what it wants to be when it grows up. It is organized like a blog, and it has some nice short videos if you take the time to surf for them. It is mostly an advertisement for Rane Revere's porn site and ImLive.com cam services, although it doesn't detail these things at all. There are a lot of links that will send you to sites looking for money or throwing advertisement your way. That said, I'm willing to give it a "Quality" rating since it doesn't have any sort of tricky stuff or pop ups. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2011-12-20
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Medium
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex

The goal of this site is to explore human sexuality in an artistic way. A small group of men and women have put together a pansexual site in which they are both artists and subjects, which I think is pretty cool! The blog section of this adult site is probably my favorite bit. It discusses topics like bisexuality, the nature of love, and the future potential for AI (artificial intelligence) being utilized to fulfill human sexual and emotional needs. There are around 491 pictures on the site, and they are divided between erotic and artistic. This confused me a bit, as I thought the goal was to combine these genres. In reality, the divide here is more like softcore/hardcore. There are some really interesting compositions in this section, and quite a few of the images are black and white. Some of the images involve kink. I'd recommend this place if you like black and white images of men with uncut cocks, as it has quite a few here. In addition to the still photos, there are about 17 short HD videos in wmv or mov formats. The movies didn't stream on my connection, but I was able to download one of the short films in a reasonable amount of time. The webpage has a forum, but it doesn't appear to be very active yet. There was some code issue on the index page that made my firefox browser blank about a quarter of the site. The member area has the non-recurring member rate listed below, but also has a monthly recurring rate with a two day trial stuck on to the first month. I really enjoy the pansexual energy here! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2011-11-30
Cost: $99/365 days non-recurring Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex, D / S, Downloadable Video, fine art nudes, gay men, Hardcore, softcore

Jamie is a drop dead knockout, and she appears to be using her own pictures. She offers phone sex through PhoneSexKingdom, and prices are listed (although you have to go to the PhoneSexKingdom site to see that Canadians will be charged .50 more each minute). This blog introduces you to Jamie, gives a list of her fetishes, shares her schedule, and mentions worn items and movies for sale. I love that her schedule is so clearly listed, and that she updates the blog to let people know if there are any changes. Jamie appears to be pretty adventurous and offers things like incest, ageplay, babysitter, BDSM, cuckold, K9, and "druggie coke whore" fantasies. Her AIM and Yahoo contact info is listed. There is a 10 minute minimum, and she runs quite a few specials that are detailed on the site. The worn items and movie details are pretty much completely absent, but there is a great teaser video in the media section. If there was more info about these things, I would have given her a "Quality" rating. It is well worth it to check out her link to PhoneSexKingdom as well, since it details their services even more. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2011-11-09
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex, Fetish Phonesex, Phonesex, Sex Work Info

Alice Bluegown has written a lesbian erotic novel called "The Extinct Song", and this site has a large portion of the (as yet unpublished) book. The individual stories are quite rich and well written, and they link together in order to explore a larger tale. In addition to the eight stories from the novel, she also shares three stories from another project called "The Serpents Wake". I certainly hope that she finds a publisher soon, as these stories are wonderful! Alice also has a blog on the site, and it is a unique collection of writing that explores everything from lesbian pornography to comic books. A great read! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2011-10-31
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: alternative / sci-fi erotica, Blogs / Journals - Sex

Melissa Blade is a 31 year old woman that started out as a webcam model in 2010, and who has transitioned to independent body rub girl. This blog talks a bit about that transition, as well as what it is like to do this kind of work for a living. I found the writing to be frank, interesting, and educational. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2011-10-10
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex, Sex Work Info

This phone sex site is different, in fact it is so different that the sincerity and openness is bound to shock you. I find it sexy as hell! Galiana uses her own pictures, and has a blog that sounds 100% authentic. She talks about her real life, real turn-ons, and real turn-offs. The site is a very personal act of sharing, and I know that while I read it I felt like I got to know her a bit. In addition to phone sex (rates and such available on Niteflirt rather than on this site), she offers a variety of media for sale. When I visited she had 13 videos, 36 photo sets, and 6 mp3s. All of them have a description and run time listed. All of them are sold through Niteflirt. I especially recommend this curvy temptress to anyone with a robot or Fembot fetish, as she has a sample of her roleplay voice on the site and it is beyond delicious. I know this is a difficult fetish to find skilled partners for, and she has this one down (and even has live action videos). Genuine, creative, sensual, and very exciting. I highly recommend this one! Love, love, love! - Vamp » More Info!

Date Reviewed: 2011-09-14
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Amateur / Indie Video / DVD, Audio, Blogs / Journals - Sex, Female Domination, Fetish Phonesex, Phonesex, Sex Work Info, Sexuality Info

Woman is a young person that moved from Canada to China almost a decade ago. She loves to write erotica, and she occasionally shares pictures from her life as well. There are almost a dozen pieces of erotica here, some of which have a definite male dominant/female submissive flavor to them. Woman doesn't discuss politics very often, but I found the short discussion of her thoughts on erotic censorship quite interesting. I think that you might as well. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2011-09-13
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex, mainstream erotica

Skin Two started out in a cellar in Soho, London in 1983. It has grown through the years to become a legend of fetish fashion and style, and the organizer of one of the most famous fetish events in the world the "Skin Two Rubber Ball Weekend". This site is the online version of their magazine, and offers lots of free (fiction and nonfiction) writing as well as tons of art. There is also a forum that allows you to network with other readers and discuss things like clubs and BDSM. Some famous bloggers such as Patrick Califia can also be found here. There are plenty of links to places that sell their clothing line, movies, and give info about upcoming events as well. A lot of free content from a legend in the business! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2011-09-13
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Advice / Education, alternative / sci-fi erotica, BDSM Art, BDSM Fiction, BDSM Resources, Blogs / Journals - Sex, Books / Zines, Latex / PVC / Rubber, Sexuality Info

I'll be upfront with you. I've never met Kitty Stryker, but I have a bit of a crush on her based upon her writing. She is really talented, and pretty darn gutsy. She describes herself as a, "Domme and escort, along with being a Burner, a queer, and a bookworm." Her blog has been the center of a lot of attention lately, as she wrote a post called "I Never Called it Rape: Addressing Abuse in BDSM Communities." This was a phenomenal post and really has inspired a whole movement of discussing consent and rape culture within BDSM. It is far from all she has to offer, however. I think posts like "Anal-Eze? Please, god, no." should be required reading for anyone that wants to try anal play. Her blog has some standard stuff like reviews as well, but she actually demonstrates a lot of the toys by using them in original hardcore photographs. A rich blog that is body positive, insightful, feminist, and courageous. I'm totally in love with this place, and it has an archive that stretches back to 2008! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2011-09-12
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - Sex, Female Bondage, Female Domination, Sado-masochism (S/M), Sex Positive Goddesses, Sex Work Info, Sexuality Info

This blog is written by a self-described queer girl living with her male partner in an open relationship. She talks a lot about online dating, gender, orgasms, and sexuality. She also reviews sex toys for multiple sites. The tone of her blog was really enjoyable and chatty, like sitting down to lunch and getting to know someone. Here is a sample of her writing: "Sure, you can be as hot as a blowtorch, but if you start talking about how you'd really rather just live off of other people and never do anything at all? You can kiss my arousal goodbye." A fun blog that I think will particularly appeal to those that have braved the slings and arrows of online dating. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2011-09-12
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex

Joanna Cake is a UK woman who writes about sensuality and sex. She also posts a lot of original images of herself in lingerie, writes sex toy reviews, and comments on recent articles and programs. Her blog is a bit of a self proclaimed mish mash of subjects, but they hover around the central theme of sexual discovery and introspection. There is also a rather unique feature every Wednesday, in which she reviews a movie and posts a clip. The movies are generally not porn, but rather mainstream films that have some sexual element. Chatty, informal, and fun! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2011-09-07
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex

One of my favorite sex toy stores is Babeland, so I was delighted to discover that a bunch of the mothers who work for the infamously sex positive and women-friendly boutique had gotten together to start a blog about love, sex, and parenting. There are about ten writers here at the moment, and you can search the entries by listed topics. The blog also covers in store events that are relevant to pregnant women (such as classes on sex during and after pregnancy). The blog is fairly new, but there is already quite a bit here. The owners of Babeland (Rachel Venning and Claire Cavanah) are both contributing authors. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2011-09-01
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Advice / Education, Blogs / Journals - Sex, Safer Sex Info, Sexuality Info

Debbie's blog is back after a bit of a hiatus, and there is an archive of around six years worth of writing. She writes about her life, but she is also very fond of crafting erotica (especially with an oral sex theme). One of the things I really love about this blogger is that she has a fetish for men who are wearing clothes, but somehow have their penis sticking out. She has appealed to her readers to indulge her fetish, and so they send in images which she features on "Cock Blogging Wednesday". She also has a "Debbie Does You" feature, in which she indulges requests for stories. If you read through the blog, you'll witness quite a journey complete with pictures and audio. A nifty blog, and a very nice erotica writer. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2011-08-08
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex, mainstream erotica