Blogs / Journals - Sex

Lady Cheeky started this blog back in 2010 as a way to communicate with her long distance lover, but it turned into more of a tool of self-exploration and expression over time. In her mission statement she says, "I want to expose myself emotionally, sexually and intimately without fear of reprisal, abandonment or ridicule. I want this act to be received in a way that supports my dignity, intelligence, womanhood and heart." As a sexually empowered single woman over 40, she crafts some smoking hot stories and confessional blog posts! I noticed when I visited that she had just won the True Tales of Erotica Competition with one of her posts, and it was truly well deserved. Her work is passionate and sometimes incredibly poignant. Well worth a read! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2013-05-13
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex

Z is a self-described "pervert of all sorts: highly sexual, extremely promiscuous, bisexual, a swinger, polyamorous, sadistic, dominant, sometimes a pro-domme, always a slut and a sexual rebel…" and Pervertically Virtuous is a blog/journal where she writes about her sexual experiences. I was immediately drawn in simply because she's a talented writer. Smart, without being pretentious. Honest and fairly blunt, without being snarky at all. Whether it was reading about an exclusive BDSM/swinger party in New York, or her relationship rules, the writing was relatable and genuine. You'll find scene/play descriptions, a sprinkling of photos (that appear to be her and her partner/s, which was a refreshing change from many a blog I've read) and lots about her outlook on relationships, lifestyle, and so on. The blog is fairly new, it looked to be about 3 months old, so hopefully it ends up being a long-lasting one.

Date Reviewed: 2013-05-06
Cost: Free Advertising Content: None
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - Sex

This blog is a collaboration of articles from different contributors. There is an "Ask Miss Geek" column, erotica, date reports, sex toy reviews, and a small amount of feminist writing. The whole thing is presided over by Mistress Arabella, who describes herself as "a pansexual sensate aesthete". There is some pretty sizzling erotica here, and I especially recommend it to women that enjoy reading about sensual submission. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2012-12-13
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex, mainstream erotica, Other Web Review sites, Sexuality Info

When I first heard of Darling House, I thought of that Dirty Sexy Money show immediately, because of the name "darling". Darling is such an evocative name. Joshua Darling, founder of DarlingHouse.net, describes it as "... a Salon that curates and features the gap between artists on the fringe, erotica, sometimes pornography and mainstream cultural appreciations like movies, theatre, and dance." There are several regular contributors to the content at Darlinghouse: the erotic food & fetish poetry of Natasha Gornik, moody video clips by JM Darling, the ongoing fetish serial of BastardKeith (currently on chapter 7), the startlingly frank photoblog of Sovereign Skye, to mention a few. The website is still calling itself a beta version, so I am guessing changes are on the horizon. In the meantime, there is a feast of words and visuals arranged pinterest-style on the front page, with navigation off to each individual contributor blog. There are themes each month, things like "authenticity" and "consent" explored in the blogs and pictorials. DarlingHouse is expanding into the "real" world as well, with their first event coming December 3rd in Brooklyn, a night of burlesque, music, etc. Info at the site.

Date Reviewed: 2012-11-26
Cost: Free Advertising Content: None
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex, fine art nudes, for women, Photographer Portfolios, Sexuality Info, Uncategorizable, webzines

If you follow adult entertainment news, you'll really love this site! Tony Batman has been the emcee for most of the Nude Pageants in the country, and he is also the founder of the A! Entertainment TV Show. This site is a collection of Adult Industry news and events, reviews, original pictures and video, and an archive of his podcast. There is a lot of content here, some of which is written by guest writers. A very user friendly and fun experience. I especially enjoyed his "Batman on the Town" videos, which are free streaming movies showing interviews and events. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2012-11-20
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex, Internet Radio Podcasts, Sex Work Info, Streaming Video, webzines

I find this blog extremely intriguing! It is by a man that describes himself (in the past) as: "...A repressed guy from a shame-obsessed background. I was a young married guy who hadn’t really figured out my sexuality. I was a maniacally hard-working professional, slipping out for my fix in the middle of the day. I was a cheating piece of shit who abused the love and trust of his family, friends and colleagues. I was an absent father and husband. I was an addict." He writes about his personal journey into a world of sexually compulsive behavior, and his current life of polyamory and love of dominance. He talks about his relationship to porn and sex work, and the disconnect between the tone of his own erotica and how he likes to experience sex with a woman. A lot of his erotica focuses on folks who have connected on the internet, and then meet in real life to have sex. I found the entire site pretty darn hot and fascinating, and I love that he explores his emotional experience as well as his physical desires. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2012-11-15
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - Sex

Violet+Rye are a 20-something married couple that offer an exquisite blog of absolutely yummy and original homemade porn! It is more than a little obvious that they create these things for their own pleasure, excitement, and titillation. I don't know about you, but that makes it all the more hot to me! You can swiftly locate their pics and videos, as they have organized the site so that you can move from one to the next easily. I encourage you to soak up all of the amateur porn goodness here, but do take time to read the journal as well. The entries are entertaining, educational, sexy, and funny. Here is a sample from a discussion on anal sex: "...[L]et's take the raunch out of it already, shall we? It fucking feels good and it doesn't HAVE TO be submissive, like any other sex act (when I peg Rye, sometimes he hops on top and rides away, what's submissive about that?)." The site also links to online interviews or mentions, Twitter and Tumblr accounts, and a way to ask them questions on formspring. Right now, the Tumblr is the most often updated. A really fabulous and non-monetized source of real world sex pictures and video! Seriously, don't miss it! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2012-11-15
Cost: Free Advertising Content: None
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples, Blogs / Journals - Sex, Sex Positive Goddesses, Solo Amateurs, Streaming Video

Dark Gracie describes herself as, "...[A]n acclaimed photographer, sex author, and deviant extraordinaire, who first began writing erotica in 2005." You can find her work at places like Fleshbot and PopSyndicate, and she is also published in Erotic Diaries. This site largely consists of journal posts that read like erotic stories. I was struck by how often they had elements of technology involved in the plot, such as sexting or sending each other audio files. I liked that! Most of the content was fairly heterosexual, but she is definitely attracted to women as well. Here is a sample of her writing style: "I love being on top. I come intensely when I am riding a cock. There is a slight problem with me in this position…I can get very violent and I have punched my own husband in the face Californication style, except I punch better and harder than that girl on the show." The stories here are super hot, but some of the essays advocate unsafe sex practices (without any sort of caveat). I was a bit disappointed at that. Other than that, the site is hot as heck! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2012-05-30
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: alternative / sci-fi erotica, Blogs / Journals - Sex, mainstream erotica, Sexuality Info

Daisy rock is a beautiful porn star from the UK with dangerous curves and jet black hair. Her website has 85 hardcore downloadable HD movies (wmv format) featuring smoking, watersports, cuckold fantasy, domination, blowjobs, lesbian, female ejaculation, public sex, and foot fetish content. She has some fun and original areas on her website, including a section in which she dominates young women. She also has a "fan fuck" section, in which she posts movies of her having sex with members of the site. I love how real these are, and how some of her members found it very difficult to perform under such high pressure. Seeing them struggle to deal with their desire while being filmed was super hot! If you enjoy still pictures, there are around 47 large hardcore galleries full of extremely high quality images. I also loved that she kept an actual blog on the site, so that you could get to know her personality. If you want to watch some of her feature length porn films, she has links to her work on a video on demand service. Super sexy, creative, and personal! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2012-04-23
Cost: $29.95/30 days recurring
Category Listings: BDSM / Fetish Video, Blogs / Journals - Sex, D / S, Downloadable Video, Female Domination, Flashing / Exhibitionism, Hardcore, lesbian / bi, porn star, Smoking

Blacksilk is a 25-year-old linguist working for a small company in Cardiff, and she doesn't even make that "cunning linguist joke" in her bio. That scored points with me! She is a bisexual switch that leans heavily toward submission, and she speaks frankly about her sex life and relationships in her blog. There is also a smattering of erotic fiction, scene reports, and original artwork. I loved it when she shared her drawings, which often had lesbian BDSM themes. Like many bloggers, Blacksilk reviews sex toys as well. I loved the fact that she organized her reviews well and was clear to point out the ones that she hated. I'm always suspicious when bloggers love all of the toys. Blacksilk doesn't do that. There were also a lot of original photographs and videos of the toys, and that rocked! If you are looking for free amateur pictures, she has a whole section devoted to original photographs of herself. Smart, honest, and interesting! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2012-04-09
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Blogs / Journals - Sex

Lady Grinning Soul is a surprising, sexy, and transgressive writer that has a lot of free content for the discerning lover of erotica. The stories here are pretty inventive and can go to fairly dark corners of the imagination (like zombie erotica in which someone is devoured). Frankly, I loved it! Some of her work is illustrated with original images, which I personally found super hot. She has one piece about menstruation that I found myself writhing in my seat over...absolutely beautiful! In addition to her self-labeled "smut", she also has plenty of other things available. She has a blog, sex toy reviews, poetry, and articles about sex and society. If you enjoy podcasts, she has one that you can subscribe to through iTunes. There is also a free gallery of nude images that is quirky, unusual, and sensual. When I visited, it appeared that she was planning an advice section (although she lists her credentials as simply being someone who reads other advice columnists). There were no letters in this section when I looked. I have to say that I really enjoyed the intimate and creative energy of this site, and I wanted to spend a whole lot longer here reading these unusual stories. I absolutely adore her imagination! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2012-04-06
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Advice / Education, alternative / sci-fi erotica, Blogs / Journals - Sex, mainstream erotica, Other Web Review sites

I recently reviewed Kelsey Obsession's professional fetish site, and was very impressed by the original and daring content. I'm even more impressed by this site, which is a blog about human sexuality! Kelsey describes herself as a sexual educator with a Masters Degree, although I'm not sure what sort she holds or from where. She reports that she used to teach college classes on sex and gender, and I wish that I knew more about that. Her blog is full of sex tips, news, and reviews. My favorite bits? She does video blogs that feel very sincere, raw, and intelligent. I also love the short essays that explained why she shoots that fetish material that she does, and describes the appeal of things like fart fetish. That is just wonderful! The links to websites, toys, and movies are not that inspiring. The personal information and experiences discussed here are solid gold. She links to her clips4sale site that has videos that teach folks how to get past guilt and shame, have joyful anal sex, and more. I noticed that the videos had short descriptions and run times listed, as well as clear pricing. I'm not sure that I can vouch for the educational credentials presented here, but I think that the emotional content that is shared has great value. Excellent site! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2012-04-06
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: BDSM / Fetish Video, Blogs / Journals - Sex, Sex Positive Goddesses, Sexuality Info, Streaming Video, Uncategorizable

This blog had me at the title. I don't know who is writing this, as there is little information about the author. I do know that I like the stuff being posted here. You'll find journal entries about things to discuss before having sex, creating a more "lover friendly" space in your home, flirting with geeks, understanding jealousy, and how to deal with a partner that keeps changing their mind. The blog doesn't have a lot of content, but the content that it does have is pretty fun and solid. I really love that if it discusses concepts from a book, it cites the book at the end of the entry. Bravo! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2012-03-16
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Advice / Education, Blogs / Journals - Sex, Sexuality Info

A super yummy independent pansexual reality porn site...with a comic book! Every once in awhile I know that I'm just going to have to clear my schedule for a bit and make some extra time for a review, and that is definitely what I did for this place. Then, I took a short coffee break to find my partner and work off some steam. This place is super hot! Liandra self-identifies as "queer", which she defines as "...not heterosexually monogamous and being open to sex and love with people regardless of what their pink bits are." This site is full of joy, heat, and brilliance. There are around 459 pics, most of which feature the very sensual Liandra with natural body hair. If you've ever had a crush on Ani DiFranco, this woman is very reminiscent of the same vibrant and fierce sex appeal. All photos can be viewed one by one, or they can be downloaded as a zip file. The bulk of the site is in the movie area, however, which includes 93 streaming and downloadable quicktime movies showing all sorts of things from interviews to hardcore sex. Liandra brings her lovers and friends into the site, and so some of the action doesn't actually have her in it. I promise you that you will not find a bunch of tedious filler. The guests are all extremely attractive and outstanding folks to watch. I'm used to looking at how folks approach sex in porn, and these people actually surprised me quite a bit. The lesbian sex is particularly fetching here, as it is genuine sex between women that like having sex with women...rather than staged. There is tickling, masturbation, hardcore sex, puppy play, watersports, fisting, strap on sex, and a bunch of other exciting stuff. The blog is a real star of this site as well. It is a collection of thoughtful and interesting essays that discuss feminism, culture, and sex. The site encourages respectful interaction with the performers, so the forum is active and has genuine discussion going on. There is also a comic book here that makes Liandra into an adult superhero. I thought that was pretty nifty! On a personal note, I was particularly happy to see one of my own fetishes indulged here. She has absolutely lush, gorgeous, and large inner labia. So, if you share that particular interest I want to make sure to send you to this site! The price listed below is the general one, but women get 44% off of this if they contact the site owner before joining. A delightful and thoroughly sexy site run by a bunch of likable naked activists! Great! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2012-01-24
Cost: $15.00/30 days non-recurring Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: amateur compilations, BDSM / Fetish Video, Blogs / Journals - Sex, Downloadable Video, Enemas / Watersports, Hardcore, lesbian / bi, Natural Breasts, Sex Positive Goddesses, Solo Amateurs, Streaming Video, tickling, Uncategorizable

This blog shares original erotica, sex book/movie reviews, and movie clips from different tube sites. Jenny Swallows is co-author of The Nympho Librarian and Other Stories, as well as books of erotic poetry and more! If you are interested in her work, there are links to where to buy it on other sites. I found her XXX movie reviews to be a laugh riot (while also being pretty informative). Most of the time she seems to be drawn to the classics or modern day parody. I think that my absolute favorite journal entries here involve discussion and screen caps from her sexual adventures on the computer game Second Life. The only downside? Some of these porn tube videos create pop ups or start automatically. That said, she has a nice collection of clips of oral sex featuring uncut cocks (and that is a pretty nifty bonus). A neat and sexy blog! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2012-01-16
Cost: Free Advertising Content: High - pop ups
Category Listings: alternative / sci-fi erotica, Blogs / Journals - Sex, mainstream erotica, Other Web Review sites

Do you miss independent amateur porn, where you can really get to know the personality of a woman while viewing her in lots of different sexual situations? Do you wish you could make suggestions for shoots, and actually see that someone is listening? How do you feel about brunettes with legs that go on forever, and a stunning mind to match? If these questions get to the root of what you crave, then Zuzinka is definitely for you! She is a twenty-four year old woman from the Czech Republic who is financing her college education by being an exhibitionist in her blog. You can get a lot of stuff for free over here, including lots of pictures and some videos. If you want the more intimate and long (some reaching around forty minutes) videos that are all in wmv format, you'll have to subscribe to her "private area". She promises a few dozen videos, but she delivers over eighty. It isn't very often that you get far more than you paid for! The movies show a variety of action including hardcore sex, blowjobs, foot jobs, lapdances, public flashing/masturbation, spanking, very light bondage, and a lot more. I'd say this site also has a much greater amount of cunnilingus, lesbian play, sex in the car, drunken sex, and fingering than I am used to finding on amateur sites. Zuzinka often acts out scenarios suggested by her readers, and I saw evidence of a swift and enthusiastic response to those requests. It is worth noting for our international readers that she is proficient in Czech, English, Russian, German, and Japanese. A smart, sassy, and highly erotic journey into the sex life of one incredibly hot woman. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2012-01-12
Cost: 29.90/month recurring + 1.95 processing Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex, Downloadable Video, Hardcore, lesbian / bi, Solo Amateurs

Do you wonder what your astrological sign says about your sexuality? Would you like your sexual horoscope for the month? Lily Lick offers free horoscopes here, as well as a blog and a few very short essays. Her style is playful and sensual, and all of her writing has a distinctive voice. In addition to her free info, she links to retailers offering her ebook on sexuality and astrology. Saucy, cute, and a lot of fun! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2012-01-10
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex, eBooks, Sexuality Info, Uncategorizable

Jilly is a young woman from Belgium that writes a sexual blog with a very raw and tender voice. She self-describes as a virgin and talks about everything from fantasies to body issues, and comes across as someone who struggles and explores these things with a passion. Jilly is also an author of erotica/romance and has a couple of short fiction pieces about a character named Graham Conner (and the lovers he has had through the years), 8 stories inspired by the piano player/song writer Tim Minchin, and 27 short erotic tales. When I visited, the "Little Stories" section was unfortunately broken. So, I can't tell you the character of the pieces there. I'm sure the author will fix that soon, but right now I can only say that they are arranged by name and do not have blurbs or keywords. The rest of the erotica was unusual in that it focused on the relationships between characters while simultaneously avoiding most overt sexual expressions. I found that fascinating! There are links to photos, writing, and a tumblr project that she has been working on as well. Open, honest, and risky writing here. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2012-01-10
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex, mainstream erotica, Sexuality Info

Lilly is a gorgeous curvy femme that self-identifies as a pansexual queer. Her blog is a cool mixture of toy reviews, advice, photos, real life experiences, and erotic fiction. The entries are well written, and usually center around sexuality and blogging. I especially recommend her "Sex Toy Care and Cleaning Guide", as it is particularly succinct and helpful. She has a very upfront disclosure on her site, which I personally appreciate, and she doesn't simply love all of the toys she reviews. I liked that, and I took her reviews a lot more seriously. Creative, savvy, and sexy! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2012-01-08
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Advice / Education, Blogs / Journals - Sex, mainstream erotica

This is a blog by Master Michael Samadhi and his slave/wife Serafina. It is still relatively young, but I felt that the level of conversation and original pictures really warranted a review. The couple enjoys Tantra and BDSM, and they definitely communicate about their lives in a very real (and sometimes quite raw and vulnerable) way. They have BDSM and kink articles about things like Darlex and Hepatitis. Michael shares assignments that he has written for his partner. The review section is a breath of fresh air, since it deals with things like collars and EMT scissors. I didn't see any standard "sex toy" reviews, but loved reading over scene music recommendations and experiences with hemp rope suppliers. Here is a sample of the sort of thing you'll read from Michael: "If a slave is somebody who has been totally devalued, I'd not want to command them, I'd want to shelter and protect them until they felt valued and human. My style of domination isn't depersonalizing, in fact quite the opposite, it's expressed by continually pushing for growth, empowerment, and enlightenment within the rituals and devotions of submission." I don't know about you, but I find that pretty darn hot. A nice start to a thoughtful and interesting blog! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2011-12-22
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Advice / Education, BDSM Resources, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Blogs / Journals - Couples, Blogs / Journals - Sex, D / S, Safer Sex Info, Sexuality Info, Tantra