Sado-masochism (S/M)

Sadey Quinn is submissive to her Master, and also an author. This blog is a collection of personal entries about her life with her partner, scene reports, musings about writing, and erotic fiction. She has recently finished her first book of BDSM erotic fiction, and she has links to places where it may be purchased online. There is also an excerpt from the book on her site. A well designed and enjoyable blog! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2011-11-02
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: alternative / sci-fi erotica, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Books / Zines, D / S, eBooks, Sado-masochism (S/M), Sexuality Info, Spanking

I'll be upfront with you. I've never met Kitty Stryker, but I have a bit of a crush on her based upon her writing. She is really talented, and pretty darn gutsy. She describes herself as a, "Domme and escort, along with being a Burner, a queer, and a bookworm." Her blog has been the center of a lot of attention lately, as she wrote a post called "I Never Called it Rape: Addressing Abuse in BDSM Communities." This was a phenomenal post and really has inspired a whole movement of discussing consent and rape culture within BDSM. It is far from all she has to offer, however. I think posts like "Anal-Eze? Please, god, no." should be required reading for anyone that wants to try anal play. Her blog has some standard stuff like reviews as well, but she actually demonstrates a lot of the toys by using them in original hardcore photographs. A rich blog that is body positive, insightful, feminist, and courageous. I'm totally in love with this place, and it has an archive that stretches back to 2008! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2011-09-12
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - Sex, Female Bondage, Female Domination, Sado-masochism (S/M), Sex Positive Goddesses, Sex Work Info, Sexuality Info

If you want a bunch of authentic Japanese BDSM porn (for the price of what you'd pay for one video), then this place is really a deal! There are around 74 full length movies here, and the shortest one I found was an hour long. The movies can be downloaded as .AVI or .H264 files, or streamed as .WMV or .MP4 files. I found the streaming to be extremely swift here, easily playing the movies without any stalling (even on my slower connection). About half of the movies show female submissives and male dominants, and the other half feature female dominants and male submissives. All of the actors and actresses are Japanese, and there are no subtitles on these films. Female genitals are pixilated, which is sort of a bummer (but to be expected from legal films out of Japan). You'll see a lot of shibari bondage here, humiliation, urine drinking, gags, sadomasochism, and a whole lot of dramatic presentation. An absolute must see for folks that are into Japanese BDSM. My only complaint? The sign up is (perhaps quite unintentionally) a bit tricky. The prices are listed in a way that you could easily misread the cost of the first month. Aside from that, the organization is impeccable and easy to navigate. The content inside is represented extremely well by the preview. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2011-09-12
Cost: $39.95/month recurring @ $34.95/month Advertising Content: None
Category Listings: BDSM / Fetish Video, D / S, Downloadable Video, Enemas / Watersports, Female Bondage, Female Domination, Latex / PVC / Rubber, Male Bondage, Sado-masochism (S/M), Streaming Video

This Female dominant UK website is not actually a political organization. It is a roleplay site that represents a fictional dystopia that mixes the discourse and aesthetic of radical politics and activism with BDSM. It is based in the UK, and has a Mistress that looks like a skynbyrd (that translates to female skinhead). She wears ski masks, boxing gloves, hand wraps, bovver boots, and wields knives and guns while talking about the patriarchy and humiliating men. When I visited, there were around 18 streaming movies (and they were a bit choppy, but that could have been my connection). Most the movies run from 4-12 minutes, and they cut to the action. There was one 4 minute audio file when I visited, and just over 300 click to enlarge pics that looked a lot like blurry video caps (although this may have been an aesthetic choice). I didn't see any updates for around a month. This is unique content, and I love the idea of turning the dominant female genre upside down. I just wish that there was more here, more frequent updates, and more graphic movies. A lot of fun, and it sounds like they are running a promo for awhile that will double your membership when you join (so you get two months for the price of one). A project that is well worth watching, and that could turn into something really special! Although the Mistress reminded me of a skynbyrd, she didn't mention anything racist on the site. Neat project that I hope doesn't peter out. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2011-09-01
Cost: $39.95/30 days non recurring Advertising Content: None
Category Listings: BDSM / Fetish Video, D / S, Female Domination, Fighting / Wrestling, Male Bondage, Sado-masochism (S/M)

If you crave watching four or more men involved in hardcore sex with a bound female, then this place delivers that over and over! The movies typically last over an hour, and in usual Kink.com style they start and end with interviews. I've always loved this, as I feel like it is a great way to feel connected to the talent (and more invested in the action). The scenarios here range from psych ward staff taking advantage of patients to an unsatisfied housewife receiving a surprise birthday gang bang. The site is still pretty young, so there are only 22 streaming flash videos at the moment. Each of them are lengthy, well produced, and well acted. The bondage situations you'll see on this site have been adapted to gang bangs, so they are a little bit more tame than you might find on other Kink.com offerings. The sex, however, is far more graphic and varied. All of the movies have photo galleries full of high quality images that can be downloaded as zip files. At the moment, there are easily way over 4,100 pics. The preview is transparent, so you can actually look over all the shoots and watch trailers (and see samples) before signing up. I love that! I would particularly recommend this site to those that enjoy humiliation and spitting, as there seems to be quite a bit of it here. Most of the stuff on the site is original, but I did see a few duplicates from other Kink sites like Public Disgrace. As with all the sites in this network, there are links to their cam shows and other pay sites. An extremely hot and wild ride! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2011-08-10
Cost: $34.99/month recurring Advertising Content: Medium
Category Listings: BDSM / Fetish Video, Female Bondage, Hardcore, Sado-masochism (S/M), Streaming Video

The Fetish Annex features content from sites like seriousimages, twistedclinic, and alterpic. There are around 1,993 images and 73 videos showing well known bondage models such as Kumi and Madison Young in medical fetish scenes, bondage, SM, ponyplay, and roleplay situations. The preview is fairly transparent, so if you click through you'll be able to see all of the scenes that you'll be purchasing. The quality and format of these movies and picture galleries varies. I downloaded or streamed movies in .mov, .mpeg, and wmv format (and they seemed to all download quite slowly on my machine). The content was really creative and interesting, but the layout and speed left a bit to be desired. Still, it is really worth it if you are into bondage and medical fetish! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2011-08-09
Cost: $12.95/30 days recurring Advertising Content: Low - text links
Category Listings: BDSM / Fetish Video, D / S, Downloadable Video, Female Bondage, Latex / PVC / Rubber, Sado-masochism (S/M)

This site delivers BDSM, BJs, enemas, Femdom action, footjobs, fucking machines, strapons, and tickling! There are around 194 movies here, ranging from a little half a minute clip of a woman struggling in a straight jacket to a full 77 minute video showing domination. Most videos are at least 20 minutes long and are available in flash, mp4, and wmv. They can be downloaded in full or watched in short clips. The enema content has some expulsions, but they appear to be mostly inferred. The femdom content includes a lot of CFNM (clothed female and naked man) imagery and CBT (cock and ball torture). The fucking machines section relies heavily on hitachi magic wands and sybians. I was impressed by how much fun folks appeared to be having, particularly in the tickling and enema footage. There is a photo section on the site, but it is completely empty. That made me sad, because if they wouldn't have mentioned photos in the preview I would have been able to give them a quality rating. The DVD section just links to another site that tries to sell you movies. If you are looking for a grab bag of kink, this site is a lot of fun. I particularly recommend it to tickling fetishists, since some of my favorite tickling movies ever were on this site! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2011-08-04
Cost: $29.87/30 days recurring Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: BDSM / Fetish Video, D / S, Downloadable Video, Enemas / Watersports, Female Domination, Male Bondage, Sado-masochism (S/M), Spanking, Streaming Video, tickling

The fact that we haven't posted this review sooner is a testament to the size of the Jane's Guide queue. Sarah Sloane is one of the east coast's top BDSM, Sexuality, and Relationship educators. She has taught hundreds of classes, writes a "Dear Sarah" column, blogs for MyPleasure, is featured in SexIs Magazine, and is the Contributing Editor for Tristan Taormino's newsletter The Double T. This site is primarily a personal blog, but it also lists the classes that she currently teaches (along with a description of what to expect from each of them). There are also links to media interviews, podcasts, and some of her free online writing such as "10 Things You Didn't Know About the Prostate." If you aren't already familiar with Sarah, this is a great crash course. I think you'll particularly appreciate her materials if you are interested in polyamory and BDSM. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2011-08-02
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Advice / Education, BDSM Resources, Blogs / Journals - Sex, D / S, Sado-masochism (S/M), Sex Positive Goddesses, Sexuality Info

This site allows you to purchase movies in two ways. You can buy tokens, pay for your movie, download immediately, and then enter a username/password one time to start the clip. After that, it is on your computer and can be watched there as often as you want. The second option is to purchase a regular DVD, which will be mailed to you. All of the clips list a basic description of the action as well as a few stills. They also list run times, size, and cost (in tokens). All of these movies are available in wmv, and the site owner states that only Windows based systems can purchase and view clips. It all looks pretty good to me, but there is a major issue that kept me from listing this as a Quality site. There is no shipping info at all on the DVDs, and contact info is very limited. No privacy, terms of service, or returns info either. There is also a button labeled "Live Mistresses" that will take you to the cams site imlive.com and put you through numerous popups and other garbage. The content here looks great, but you may want to get information about shipping and such before ordering. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2011-07-27
Cost: See Above Advertising Content: Medium
Category Listings: Amateur / Indie Video / DVD, BDSM / Fetish Video, D / S, Downloadable Video, Female Domination, Foot Fetish, Latex / PVC / Rubber, Male Bondage, Ponygirls / Ponyboys, Sado-masochism (S/M)

This site knows what it wants to deliver, and it does it dependably! The whole place is filled with dominant women in pantyhose and submissive men. You'll see a lot of CBT (cock and ball torture), quite a bit of it involving women in high heels. There is also some trampling, forced sissification, face sitting, forced licking, watersports, strap ons, and smoking dominance. The site seems to update once every three days, and there are currently 497 galleries in all. Each gallery contains one downloadable movie (in wmv format) and around a hundred pics. All of the pics galleries are downloadable as zip files. The organization is chronological, but you also have the ability to search by model. The cam area simply leads to a pay cam site. I have to say that I'm impressed with the level of play Lakeview Entertainment has been showing in their films. I feel like this company understands their clients, and they are delivering the real deal. Scorchingly hot female dominance, with a lot of special attention to pantyhose! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2011-07-14
Cost: $27.95/30 days recurring @ $19.95 Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: BDSM / Fetish Video, D / S, Downloadable Video, Female Domination, Foot Fetish, Panties/Stockings, Sado-masochism (S/M), Smoking

The underlying theme here is trampling, face sitting, CBT, foot fetish, smoking, and lots of female domination! Mistress Sara Akeera is a Canadian Mistress with around 120 movies in wmv format (each of which runs around 6 minutes long). She wears rubber, latex, or other fetish gear and ruthlessly tramples her slaves. Sometimes she engages in some guided masturbation, or even shows herself masturbating. Most of the time she discusses cuckolds, or even makes men submit to oral sex with other male slaves for her pleasure. This is a must have site for trampling fetishists! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2011-07-12
Cost: $19.95/30 days non-recurring Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Ageplay, BDSM / Fetish Video, D / S, Downloadable Video, Female Domination, Foot Fetish, Latex / PVC / Rubber, Male Bondage, Ponygirls / Ponyboys, Sado-masochism (S/M), Smoking

Mistress Lady Jenny is a very brutal female dominant from Hungary. This raven haired woman definitely enjoys human pony and dog play! She rides her ponies in all sorts of weather, including snow. There is a strong foot fetish element here as well, since she has her slaves lick or clean her feet and boots (and sometimes those boots are quite dirty with mud). The CBT (cock and ball torture) that you'll find here includes pretty heavy duty trampling (with bare feet and heels). You'll also find lots of whipping, caning, and paddling. There are a total of 54 movies (each running around 6 minutes long), and all of which are downloadable in wmv format. All of the dialogue is in Hungarian. I want to stress that this site is definitely not messing around. The men here cry, bleed, endure pretty intense face slapping, and even have cigarettes put out on their tongues. This makes it ideal for folks that want to see real sadism, rather than a bit of slap and tickle. I have no idea if the site is ever updated, but it has a non-recurring payment option. There is a link on the site to a video on demand and live cam service. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2011-06-29
Cost: $19.95/30 days non-recurring Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: BDSM / Fetish Video, D / S, Downloadable Video, Female Domination, Foot Fetish, Male Bondage, Ponygirls / Ponyboys, Sado-masochism (S/M), Smoking

AlwaysArousedGirl reviewed this site back in 2009 when it was called Enemas.com and was under different ownership. She had this to say about it: "Enemas.com celebrates back-door cleaning out in a grand way... You'll see costumed young women and a wide array of implements and devices...On the site you'll also find a message board, personals,...and some helpful advice on getting started with enema play. One really nice thing about Enemas.com is that you don't have to take my word for what's offered. Go to the site and peek in on each and every update. All are available for preview, so you can see the costumes and equipment and read the summaries before you hand over a credit card." All of that remains true, but it is so much better now! The site is significantly less expensive, and there is a lot more content with better organization. Wizard of Ass Productions has taken over the place now, and they bring their own unique passion to it. There are currently well over 135 video clips (wmv format) and 5,700 photos here now, and they are all smoking hot and very high quality. This is not a site filled with bored looking folks with enema nozzles in their bum. You'll see lots of very adorable, fit, and young women taking real enemas and expelling them in a very sexually charged context. The enema gear is varied. You'll find balloon nozzles, flow indicators, colonic tubes, funnels, and a lot more. There are some exotic (and even potentially life threatening) enemas given here. You'll see women taking grape juice, milk, and even beer. The site owner is responsible about explaining the dangers of alcohol enemas, which I appreciated. Punishment, reward, medical, and sensual enemas are given on this site. The tone of domination is very respectful and firm, and for some reason that polite and demanding combination was a zillion times hotter for me than the usual attempt at gritty conversation. If you enjoy BDSM, there are a lot of elements of it here. Suspension, canes, vibrators, plastic wrap, bondage/enema chair, spankings, and roleplay are all over the place. There is also a dose of lesbian and hardcore sex. If I had to sum it up, I think that I would say it is about psychological and physical domination through liquid penetration. I think that this site will appeal to those that like to receive, as well as those that like to give. I know that I was on the edge of my seat watching this, and I wanted more. Edgy, respectful, and diabolical! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2011-04-27
Cost: $29.95/30 days recurring Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Advice / Education, BDSM / Fetish Video, D / S, Downloadable Video, Enemas / Watersports, Female Bondage, Sado-masochism (S/M)

Molly is an attractive and mature submissive UK woman that loves to write and take pictures. The presentation of her journal and personal photos is very easy to navigate, and she writes in a very casual and easy to read style. There is over a year of writing here, most of which centers on her D/s relationship. Sweet, loving, and lots of images! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2011-04-27
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, D / S, Sado-masochism (S/M)

Mistress Eleise de Lacy is the main figure behind this site, and she will bewitch you with her charming and wicked laugh! This glamorous UK mistress has put together an extremely well organized site that shows all of the classic favorites like strap-ons, CBT (cock and ball torture), forced feminization, boot worship, leather corsets, whips, canes, and such. She also has more unique offerings like multiple dominants, nipple stretching, smoking fetish/human ashtray, breathplay, tattoo worship, cum feeding, ruined orgasms, and face sitting. The inside of the site is set up to be just like the preview, so you know exactly what you are getting. There are currently around 37 sets that include video and photos (with around 20 hours worth of streaming and downloadable high or standard definition content spread amongst them). All photos are viewable individually, or can be downloaded as sets in a zip file. I really appreciated the free trailers available here, as they offered an honest and useful look at what was inside. Exceptionally well done! Wicked, classy, sensual, and dominant. How can you pass that up? Absolutely recommended. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2011-04-21
Cost: $29.95/30 days recurring Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: BDSM / Fetish Video, D / S, Downloadable Video, Female Domination, Foot Fetish, Male Bondage, Panties/Stockings, Sado-masochism (S/M), Smoking, Streaming Video

Iona and James are an adventurous, inventive, and exciting couple that blog about their relationship as a D/s couple in a poly relationship. Iona is slender and muscular, and often posts pictures of herself oiled up or involved in some kind of kink situation. James is far more camera shy, but contributes writing to the site. They share scene reports and opinions, as well as pictures of toys and personal fantasies. One distracting thing about this site is that they also post porn reports about Kink.com updates. I sometimes clicked on those before realizing what they were. Iona has put together her experiences in a book called, "Sapioslut: The Collected Adventures." She links to where it can be purchased. This is a really neat site with great energy and sexy pics! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2011-04-11
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Medium
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Blogs / Journals - Couples, D / S, Sado-masochism (S/M)

Do you enjoy fantasies involving schoolgirls that are stripped, spanked, humiliated, caned, given enemas, suspended, and forced or coerced into hardcore action? Then you'll like this site, which is all about highly sexualized consensual roleplay mixed with BDSM. The women here are all very young and petite, and they do a pretty good job of roleplaying wayward schoolgirls. Unlike many spanking/ageplay sites, this site unflinchingly serves up gritty and graphic scenarios that involve hardcore action. These girls won't just be left in a corner, they might be covered in Vaseline and left out in the cold woods to think about what they've done. I bottom to this style of play myself, and I can tell you that it was satisfying to view this as someone that has played the part of such a wayward schoolgirl (rather than just the one punishing her). So, I think this site will appeal rather broadly to folks that like sexualized ageplay and enema play. There are around 35 films on the site, all of which are sliced into smaller video clips (for a total of around 114 wmv movies). You definitely need a high speed connection to enjoy the stuff here, as you'll need to download all the movies. There is no streaming option. You'll also need to be able to download and open the 58 photo sets (with a total of around 2085 images), that are available as zip files. You cannot view the galleries online. The site has been recently acquired by Wizard of Ass Productions, and they are moving towards an original site. At present, there wasn't quite enough 100% exclusive content for our original rating. So, if you subscribe to other sites by that production company you may see some repeats. The preview is completely transparent, so you'll know precisely what you are getting. If you are a fan of this style of play, you may also be interested in the fairly active message board that includes personals. An incredibly sexy and daring spanking and ageplay site, with a healthy dose of BDSM. Yummy! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2011-03-23
Cost: $24.95/30 days recurring @ $19.95 Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Ageplay, D / S, Downloadable Video, Hardcore, Sado-masochism (S/M), Spanking

This is the personal website of erotic romance author Jude Mason. She has a large collection of original works including male/female, gay/lesbian, paranormal, changeling, BDSM, and Science Fiction titles. There are over 21 free pdf novels here, which should be plenty to wet your appetite for more of her work. There are also 8 free stories in pdf format by guest authors. So, you will be swimming in erotica! I think you'll particularly like this author if you enjoy gay male stories with a paranormal element and kink. The site links to places where you can purchase her latest ebooks, books in print, audio books, and magazines. If you are a budding writer, you may want to check out her resource section. I think she gives a great overview of authors, publishers, and promotional sites. Romantic, well written, and daring erotica with a side order of the kinky paranormal! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2011-02-28
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: alternative / sci-fi erotica, Books / Zines, D / S, eBooks, mainstream erotica, Sado-masochism (S/M)

Wow, this is hot! Courtney Trouble and Tina Horn are the masterminds behind this new genderqueer site, which manages to be educational while it gets you off. There is an awful lot going on here, and I'll try to break it down a bit into manageable pieces. The hardcore video section features around ten different movies. Each movie has a brief teaser trailer, description, list of performers, and run time. You can download a clip to keep for $16 bucks (with 3 days to download), buy a streaming rental for $12 (available for 3 days), or buy a VIP membership and watch everything at anytime you wish. When I visited, VIP membership was $29.99/month recurring. Some of the clips are only accessible to VIP members. The trailers give a very accurate idea of what to expect from the movies, and the action you'll see here feels very authentic and exciting. Aside from this paid content, you'll find a whole section of free video interviews with the performers. I watched a few of these and found them to be very sexy, and also intellectually engaging. This was true of the written profiles as well, and the movies were even hotter after I felt like a got a deeper understanding of who I was watching. The QPTV Live section features lives sex shows, and the schedule is posted. When I visited the site, the live show was free and included a very interesting discussion about sex-positive queer porn being given at a college campus. The next show was a live demonstration of impact play at the same college, complete with fisting. The shows streamed flawlessly on my older computer, and included a chat feature that let me ask questions of the performers through Courtney Trouble. That was really neat, and it was one of the best times I've had during a live adult show! The last section of the website is Qtube, which is sort of like a sex-positive hardcore queer version of other popular tube sites. It has a clearly written privacy policy and TOS, and members are allowed to treat it as a social network as well as a video viewing site. So, if you want to upload a video and share it with just a few friends this place will make that possible. The categories here have some familiar names like "BDSM" and "Lesbian", and some less common names like "Romantic Playtime." I think it is safe to say that all of the content may challenge viewer's traditional views of these topics, so it is important to enter into viewing with an open mind. Personally, I found that to be a very joyful experience. This site considers itself to be about "hardcore sex positivity", and it certainly lives up to that. Tina Horn is positively on fire on this site! Other stars such as Dylan Ryan, Jiz Lee, Mickey Mod, James Darling, Madison Young, Billy Castro, and more really bring the energy to their performances here. This is sex that you wish you could join, rather than just watch. If you enjoy your erotica hot, smart, queer, and authentic...I think this is a must see! Be sure to take the tour of the site, since there are a lot of free pics. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2011-02-19
Cost: See Above Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: BDSM / Fetish Video, Downloadable Video, Female Bondage, Hardcore, Male Bondage, Sado-masochism (S/M), Sexuality Info, Streaming Video, TV & TS

Fulani and Velvet Tripp are a maledom/femsub couple that both write erotica. I would not normally list a blog that is this new, but it also includes a lot of free stories by Fulani (as well as links to his work available through other sites). In addition to the fiction, they have a couple of really interesting and informative original articles. A nice author site that has the definite possibility of growing into a really lovely BDSM resource. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2011-01-24
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: BDSM Fiction, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Blogs / Journals - Couples, D / S, Sado-masochism (S/M)