D / S

Ever dreamed of spending some deeply satisfying time with a super-hot, totally beautiful transgender man? DirtyTransGuy.com offers just that delightful possibility. Check out the site for a complete description of the sorts of activities you can plan, from discipline and boot worship to orgasm control and puppy play. I've worked with Dirty Trans Guy in the past on various projects related to kink and sexuality education. I've found him to be knowledgeable, discreet and thorough, not to mention kinkier than a poorly-stored garden hose -- all qualities you'd ardently desire in someone hired to put you through your erotic paces. Dirty Trans Guy spends time in the Philadelphia and New York City areas but can travel to you if you'd like. Visit his site for the smokin' hot pictures if for no other reason. --aag

Date Reviewed: 2010-01-13
Cost: free Advertising Content: low
Category Listings: D / S

Daddy T's Dungeon claims to show the reality of slave training. I can't say whether or not this particular method of slave training is realistic, but what I can say is that it's blazing-hot. Right now the site features the training of a quartet of slaves; 50+ updates show them being taken through up to four weeks of lessons in subjects such as cock worship, wax play, violet wand endurance, forced anal and whipping. Video is available only for online viewing and in some cases is of pretty poor quality. On the plus side, there are incredibly tender moments, especially during one totally hot fisting scene. Also be ready for some quite painful lessons, such as when Daddy T pulls a clothes pin zipper off Scarlette. My favorite was a forced-orgasm scene with a charmingly vocal young lady. All told there's a massive amount of content for the price, and the creative BDSM shown here more than makes up for the lack of video quality and site design. --aag » More Info!

Date Reviewed: 2009-09-18
Cost: $15.99 / 30 days recurring at $12.99 Advertising Content: moderate
Category Listings: BDSM / Fetish Video, D / S

CostumeCuties.com is all about hot girls dressed in your favorite costumes (think teacher, waitress or superhero) while enjoying some kinky play. In charge is award-winning bondage photographer and rigger Nikki Nefarious, who binds her subjects in deviously creative ways with zip ties, rope, duct tape, straight jackets and chains. Expect a lot of creativity here, with models bound onto chairs, beds, tables and a stunning chain spider web. Several sets feature latex outfits. Boots and stockings are also well-represented. You'll find around fifty WMV videos on the site, each around twenty minutes long. Download these to watch, with a cap of twenty downloads per day. Around one hundred photos sets are also included. The images enlarge to a huge size and they're pretty easy to view with the included slide-show. Unfortunately I found no way to download complete sets to my own hard drive. I'm so appreciative of the fact that every model on the site looked suitably impressed by the perilous positions in which they are caught, unlike on some other bondage sites where the models look unappealingly bored. Right now the site design is not the shiniest I've ever seen, but in light of the affordable monthly fee and excellent photography, I can't get too concerned about it. I did, however, dearly wish for an "About" page so that I could learn more about Nikki Nefarious (and the other unnamed riggers who appear on the site), as well as some short descriptions of individual shoots. And maybe a model directory? If you need a non-recurring option, you can sign up for one month for $17.95 or three months for $37.95. --aag

Date Reviewed: 2009-08-04
Cost: $15.95 / month recurring at $13.95 Advertising Content: low
Category Listings: D / S, Female Bondage

Whew! There seem to be a lot of "network" sites around these days, but this one is actually smoking hot. Pain Vixens has around 76 movies, all of which really capture intense power exchange (without going to too many physical extremes). Most of the content seems to involve male dominants and female submissives, but there are female dominants in a few movies. The movies can be streamed or downloaded, and they are cut up into several pieces for quicker viewing. Membership with this site gives you access to the 20 other sites in the Fetish Network, some of which are on similar topics. I think you will particularly enjoy this site if you are into abduction scenarios. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2009-07-24
Cost: $39.95/month recurring Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: BDSM / Fetish Video, D / S, Female Bondage, Sado-masochism (S/M)

Is the bondage on InescapableBondage.com truly inescapable? It certainly seems that way. Right now around thirty videos are up at InescapableBondage.com. These are viewable in QuickTime or downloadable in WMV or iPod versions. The quality is wonderful in all cases. A couple hundred images accompany each video; these can be viewed in a flash slide show or zipped to your hard drive. The content is hot, respectful and ... well ... even more hot. The bondage is really interesting and unique; they use a bondage chair that just fascinated me. Like to see women on fucking machines or the Sybian? There's plenty of that at InescapableBondage.com. Want more than a month? Try 90 days recurring for only $49.99. That price is very reasonable for the amount of content here. Highly recommended. --aag

Date Reviewed: 2009-07-11
Cost: $19.99 / 30 days recurring Advertising Content: low
Category Listings: D / S, Female Bondage, Latex / PVC / Rubber, Machine Sex, Streaming Video

I'm rarely impressed by femmedom sites, but this one is incredibly hot! It features huge strap-ons, CBT, face sitting, foot fetish (including footjobs), spitting, smoking, watersports, spanking, caning, anal fisting, nylon fetish, ponyboy, electricity, needles, body casting, female "plumper" submissives, rubber, public scenes, and even some outdoor snow scenes. Mistress Carmen Rivera is like a Dominatrix comic book character come to life as she coldly gives orders and taunts her submissives in German while smoking and whipping around her dark black hair. If you like dominant women, you will be in heaven! There are around 30 galleries at the moment. Each one has a movie that has been cut up into smaller bits for easier download or streaming, and you can choose high or low bandwidth sizes. In addition to the movies, there are stills from the movie shoots. This site is part of the "Fetish Network", so you gain entrance to around 30 other sites that have similar themes. I think I'd pay the entrance fee for just the content here, however. It was that impressive! The only downside? She rarely speaks English, and if you are looking for traces of traditional sexuality you just won't find much of that here. A well organized, sexy, and true fetish site. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2009-06-24
Cost: $39.95/month recurring Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: D / S, Enemas / Watersports, Female Bondage, Female Domination, Male Bondage, Sado-masochism (S/M), Smoking

You've just got to love a site whose name comes from a t.s. elliot poem. Wasteland.com lists archived updates all the way back to 1994, which means that you've got a nearly endless supply of hard bondage porn. Older updates of course feature lower-quality images; remember the 14.4 modems we all had back then? Current updates feature tons of options for viewing high-quality content. View it online, zip it to your hard drive, download it to your iPod or iPhone, or try the high-def mp4 option. You'll see bondage, discipline, large object insertions and lots of sex. Additionally, you can send a kinky e-card, read sexuality and bondage guides, or check out reviews of other websites. I love when sites make it easy to reach customer service; Wasteland.com is a great example of this. Their phone lines are open 24/7 and there's a convenient link if you need to cancel your account. If that's not enough, you'll find an email address and even a mailing address. Joining options are equally convenient: I count six different ways to pay. Updates are posted daily. Highly recommended for anyone seeking an unbelievably huge supply of high-quality BDSM porn. --aag

Date Reviewed: 2009-05-15
Cost: $34.95 / month recurring Advertising Content: moderate
Category Listings: BDSM / Fetish Video, D / S, Downloadable Video, Hardcore, Streaming Video

This blog managed to move me today, and not just intellectually. It was so full of passion, pain, longing, love, and loss that I cried. It is written by Oatmeal Girl who describes herself as a submissive Jewish bisexual feminist baby boomer. A lot of the writing is in the form of poetry, and perhaps that is how it slipped into my heart and ravaged my emotions. She has a very well developed and intensely emotional style. It never seems overly fancy, and instead feels very raw and honest (like the talk of a good friend). She often speaks of love, but it isn't an easy love. It is the sort that rips through you, but that you couldn't and wouldn't want to live without. Here is an example of her writing, "I'm high on a cocktail of drugs, and they're each addictive on their own. Just imagine the potency of the alternate reality of subspace combined with the exhilaration of creative inspiration on top of that dependable stimulant, praise." On the flip-side of this ecstasy you'll find solemn and heartfelt poems that include moments like this, "I'm doing well now, master./ My moods don't bounce around/ the room. I held up my end, John./ Perhaps you'd love me now." I think that was the line that tore it for me. I fell in love with her myself. Great stuff! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2009-01-25
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, D / S

GaggedInPublic.com hires attractive young women to walk around in public wearing ball-gags. They endure odd looks from passers-by and occasional drool issues while helpless to remove their gags because their hands are taped and bound in their sleeves. Brilliant! Before joining you can check out pictures of the models (they're all adorable) and (in theory) view an 18-second AVI clip of one of the scenes (it didn't work for me). Right now the site contains 89 -- 89! -- videos, each running around five minutes. These are zipped files which must be downloaded to your own computer for viewing. Keep in mind that there's no nudity whatsoever on the site. The closest it gets is a fetching young woman frolicking on the beach in a bikini and a chunky red gag. Prices for GaggedInPublic.com are listed in Euros; check current conversion rates for the most up-to-date price in US dollars. Please note that a 1€ "transaction fee" is added to each sale *and* each month of the membership. Gagging's not my fetish but I found it strangely enticing to watch how the models handled their public bondage. --aag

Date Reviewed: 2008-12-17
Cost: 19.99€/30 days ($26.67 UDS) recurring Advertising Content: nil
Category Listings: D / S, Female Bondage

After two warning pages (hey, it pays to be safe!), I finally made it almost into Slave Kitten's inner sanctum. The main page of this site kind of reminds me of my very website I ever did...circa 1998 or 1999. You know, solid color background with contrasting Courier text, a few pictures inserted helter skelter. Once inside the members area, it isn't much different - the black background with the bright letters greet you. In the stories area, there are two journal entries (kind of like a blog), and there is supposed to be erotica on its way, but currently there is none. Under galleries, you can find personal pictures, which consist of the leaves turning and some VERY adorable cats (sorry, I do love cats!), and a few other pictures. However, the "sex" pictures are poorly done (very amateur), there aren't that many, and there are more than a couple of doubles. Basically, I think this could be a good personal blog, where people could read about the journey of Slave Kitten. However, I don't know if it's really ready to be a paysite.

Date Reviewed: 2008-12-02
Cost: $19.95/month Advertising Content: None
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, D / S

This is the most recent website launch by the prolific Kink.com group, and as with all of their sites, the quality of the shoots and video is excellent. Princess Donna is in charge of this site, and the content and tone seems to be getting worked out as they go along. I wouldn't be surprised to see minor changes in tone or shoot type as they progress. As of right now, with the site launch a month behind them, they have 10 scenes online, and as all of the Kink.com sites they update every Friday with a new one. The content is a mix - while the site header might say "women bound, stripped and punished in public", right now it's about half truly public (outdoor) scenes, and the other half more gang-bang scenes. Think "woman as dinner party entertainment" instead of truly public sex. You can freely browse the preview snaps and scene descriptions, and also interesting is reading through the member forums where the scenes are being discussed. I think that, more than anything, will give viewers a good idea as to whether the site content is truly for them, it's a nice tool to have when deciding whether to join or not. Yet another great job. - Jane » More Info!

Date Reviewed: 2008-10-17
Cost: $29.95/mo, other options (see more info) Advertising Content: None
Category Listings: BDSM / Fetish Video, D / S, Female Bondage, Flashing / Exhibitionism

What a great blog! I often seem to read material by female submissives, but it is rare to find a genuine blog by a lifestyle dominant. So, it was with great interest that I devoured the offerings of Lady Lubyanka. She is a 41 year old musician who is bisexual, poly, Jewish, and funny as all get out. She discusses her thoughts about everything from caning to corsets, and really seems to have a knack for reviewing products. She also has a great informational section that explains prostate milking. All of her writing has a very intellectual and whimsical tone, and it is great to feel both entertained and informed. An example of a product review is her comment about a specific dildo she had purchased for her harness, "...[E]ven the most olfactorily oblivious person would be able to taste the airborne rubber fumes from this cock, just from breathing in the same room as it. The smell was more insistent and persistent than door-to-door religion pushers." Fun, informative, charming, and sexy! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2008-10-08
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, D / S, Female Domination, Sexuality Info

You just don't get any more original than this! This obvious labor of love offers original writing, music, acting, movies, and pictures. There are over 30 wmv movies (which come out to over 9 hours of viewing) here, and each one has been scripted by the deliciously whimsical writer Cherry Chapman. In the movies section you'll be able to view descriptions of the films, and sometimes even a short trailer. Each movie is available in hi-res and low-res, with the hi-res being full 1080 HD. All of the movies feature very young petite women with slim figures, and quite a few of them have lesbian or solo masturbation content. There are a few movies with men in them as well, and a minority of the content involves spanking or whipping. The plots of the movies are all over the map from straight forward sensual softcore (with no dialogue) to erotic stories with lots of dialogue and some hardcore sex. There are even some films that have relatively edgy storylines with arty imagery, such as the movie "Drugged" which involves girls drugging and taking advantage of each other. The hallucinations of the drugged girls are quite unusual! In addition to the scripted movies, you'll find a section devoted to the art of strip tease. There are over thirty women that slowly tease the viewer and disrobe, and most of them appear in the scripted movies as well. If you visit the "editing room" you'll get to experience even more content including the scripts (in doc file form), around six galleries of behind the scenes photos, a jukebox full of the original music, and links to the stars of the films. There is also a forum and a picture section that includes over 40 galleries of high res images. One of the things I noticed about the movies here is that they were a lot of fun. It looked like the girls were having a good time, and that really makes a difference to me. While I think that this site isn't exactly what folks are looking for if they have a large appetite for explicit hardcore, I think it will be the perfect fit for those that like sensual teases that inspire the imagination. A creative, interesting, and sexy good time! - Vamp » More Info!

Date Reviewed: 2008-10-04
Cost: $25/month non-recurring Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: BDSM / Fetish Video, D / S, Downloadable Video, Female Bondage, mainstream erotica, softcore

This blog by Naughtybuttcute discusses her submission. It is easy to access past posts, articles, novel excerpts, reviews, and fantasies. Her relationship appears to involve a lot of domestic discipline, so there is a bunch of talk about things like spankings. One of my favorite posts was "Recipe for a Submissive" which lists things like, "You hear the buckle on his belt jingle and you get chills down your back." A very nice blog about someone who is participating in a pretty intense type of power exchange. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2008-09-03
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, D / S

This site has over 700 pictures and 14 movies featuring Mistress Cat and her enslaved husband. It shows a lot of bootlicking, small cock humiliation, and ass play. Many of the still images show Cat posing in her clothing, or her husband doing household chores (usually while naked and experiencing humiliation). All of the movies have some text that describes the events of the day that led to the scene. The site is well organized, and the videos played very swiftly. I think that a lot of folks into Female Led Marriages and small cock humiliation will find this site particularly exciting. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2008-08-27
Cost: $25.00/month non-recurring Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: BDSM / Fetish Video, D / S, Female Domination, Sado-masochism (S/M)

We used to get a lot more of these types of sites, and I miss them. This is one of those home grown personal websites that used to rule the web, before the blog explosion. It is written by Seeker's breath{MS}, and you can tell that she found the graphics and designed the place herself. It is full of articles she has written, resources she values, and a lot of personal opinion about D/s relationships. There are links to a myspace page and blog as well. In her mission statement she says, "Please, do not confuse BDSM with D/s. Even though D/s is a part of the three facets in BDSM it is not a fetish, it is a natural way of life." Her approach is very romantic, and she discusses ideas as diverse as the concept of a soul mate and meditation. I really love this sort of thing, even when I have a different take on some of it at times. This is when the web shines for me, when someone taps out their thoughts on a home computer and places a bit of themselves on the internet. That is what I was doing when Jane found me! A sweet little site about dominance and submission. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2008-08-20
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Advice / Education, BDSM Resources, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, D / S

This website advertises Dollie Llama's book "Diary of an S&M Romance". It is about a married couple living in Southern California that met through bondage.com. You can read the first chapter of it for free, and it links to places where you can buy the entire book. You can also download the whole thing as a free audiobook through podiobooks.com, which is just fantastic! This took a lot of work, so I hope you leave a donation. Dollie and her partner ThornDaddy have a regular podcast called "Submission and Coffee", and you can follow the links to download the free archive. It is a lot of fun! There are shirts, mugs, and links to myspace profiles as well. This site is very low tech and reminds me of the web back in '96, before a lot of slick groups got involved in marketing kink. It is rough around the edges, and full of great content. She also says the "F" word (feminist), and I have to love her for that. "She’s a feminist doing things many feminists would consider beastly, and loving every second of it." You and me both, sister. A wonderful little site on the web! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2008-08-13
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Audio, Books / Zines, D / S, Internet Radio Podcasts, Sado-masochism (S/M)

I intended to review this site ages ago. Just one problem. I couldn't stop LOOKING at the site long enough to write the review of the site. Now that's some damn good porn. The Training of O launched over a year ago (when we originally reviewed it) from the smut powerhouse Kink.com. Since then, they've updated each Friday like clockwork, so there is a pretty extensive archive now. Every site in their lineup features features ample content, amazing locations, hot interactions and gorgeous photography. Any site by Kink.com is going to be a real treat, and The Training of O is no exception. Each scene starts with the same premise: A submissive woman volunteers herself for four days of intensive slave training, all of which is documented by the Kink.com crew. The content is very hardcore in the sex/humiliation/bondage aspect, so be aware of that before you look at samples even. Before you join, you can view smaller images of recent updates and a sample movie, available in WMV, Real Player and iPod. All movies and images are downloadable. I found it fascinating to read the scene rules all actors must agree to before they can be filmed. The folks at Kink.com are committed to safe, sane and consensual activities. The scenes are extremely intense (and extremely hot), but it's made exceptionally clear that each action is done with the models' willing participation. Video is available either in smaller scenes or in one big 'ol download. There are hundreds of still photos for each episode, and the quality of these if far above the quality in your average porn site. Resolution is excellent, of course, but many of the shots end up with an altogether magical quality. An example? A macro shot of a foot curled in orgasm, with the rest of the performer's naked body blurred in the background. So suggestively sexy, in a way that stark gynecological genitalia could never be. And now, since I'm done writing the review, I suppose I need to forget the password and stop looking at the site, right? - AAG » More Info!

Date Reviewed: 2008-07-27
Cost: $24.91/mo/recurring Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: BDSM / Fetish Video, D / S, Female Bondage, Sado-masochism (S/M)

Ann Jacobs is an award winning author of erotic romance novels that cover contemporary, BDSM, futuristic, paranormal, historical, and comedy genres. She believes that an erotic romance is, "...[T]he perfect combination of sex, sensuality, deep emotional involvement and lifelong commitment." This website lists all of her novels and gives a brief description and excerpt from each of them. There are also a couple of free stories and links to her blog and yahoo group. I always love reading about authors, and she has a nice bio section and a lot of pictures. It seems that she really enjoys her fans, so there are lots of fun things like contests and free bookmarks. I noticed that she has a lot of futuristic science fiction BDSM stories, cowboys, harems, and medieval content. So, if any of those trip your trigger, you should definitely take a look here. If you are an author, she has some great links to publishers, review sites, and writer's organizations as well. A neat little site! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2008-06-30
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: alternative / sci-fi erotica, Books / Zines, D / S, eBooks, mainstream erotica

This blog is written by Marcello, a thirty-something pansexual male from New York. Can I just say that I adore this guy? He writes about his sexuality, which includes a submissive nature. He talks openly and honestly about his foot fetish, love of anal play, and exploration of his own fluid sexuality. One of the most wonderful things about this blog, however, is his discussion of non-sexual male intimacy and vulnerability. Here is one of my favorite things that he wrote, "My point being - as men we have a right to make sure our friends are Ok - mentally, physically and sexually...We need to get to the point in our male-male friendships where sensitivity and openness between us is not perceived as weird, but healthy." That is fabulous! All this sound and sensitive commentary, and nice naked pictures to boot. What is there to complain about? Great blog! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2008-06-12
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Blogs / Journals - Sex, D / S, men